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PoseidonX43
March 16th, 2011, 06:24 PM
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Jess
March 16th, 2011, 09:44 PM
I'm sorry. Tell your parents that there's nothing wrong with being bi. you don't need to break up with your boyfriend. Maybe make sure your parents can't search through your stuff again and if they ask if you've broken up, tell them you did (but you really didn't) - but that'll be lying, so if you don't want to do that, that's okay....

PoseidonX43
March 18th, 2011, 09:44 PM
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Portable Desert
March 22nd, 2011, 10:05 PM
Tell them to stop being such homophobes, you are born the way you are and like who you like and they cant do shit about it. sorry about your situation, :(

Wicked_Syn
March 22nd, 2011, 10:16 PM
Knowing me, I would tell them if they don't like it, they can kiss my ass. Tell them that they should love you for who you are. You are a product of them, and for them to not be okay with that is wrong.

Btw, how old are you?

SuperSuraj
March 23rd, 2011, 07:17 PM
Dude i'm really sorry, thats really sad, i'm not sure if i can give you any more advice than what everyone up there ^ has already said but you should just know that i hope you find a way to be with the person you love, because everyone deserves to be with who they love no matter what sexuality they are, and i really hope your parents learn to accept you for who you are, not what they want you to be. :)

PoseidonX43
March 23rd, 2011, 08:36 PM
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Ambrosia
March 24th, 2011, 10:54 AM
They are freaking out because you're fifteen and the chances are they don't understand how you can know for a fact you are what you are. Parents don't want their babies changing from the way they feel God inteded you to be and that's just their own flaw. At this point lying is probably the best option just because of how old you are and your position. When you're older you can be more open about it to them because they won't be able to kick you out or do anything about it. By then they will just have to accept it.

grstl
March 24th, 2011, 12:29 PM
BE BRAVE TO BE WHO YOU ARE! I really hurt for you because I grew up really gay inside...experimented only with guys....always pretending to be straight. By not standing up for my identity, I even got a girlfriend and we had a baby to try to prove I was straight. Now, I am miserable wanting to tell the world I am gay, but I don't want to hurt my religious family, girlfriend and son. I get so desperate I sneak guy stuff on the side which is cheating them.

Trust me, being painfully honest now in your life will be way better than being a liar and a cheat .....who still craves guys.

Good Luck....I'm cheering for you.

Spook
March 24th, 2011, 12:39 PM
I think you should talk to them about your feelings. There isn't anything wrong with being gay or bi. I think it is extremely irresponsible and immature when parents threaten to kick their kids out of the house because of their sexuality. That is homophobia. I extremely oppose against that act. I am Bi, my parents don't know, but if they did I think they would be okay with it. If you're parents still don't accept it even after you talk to them, you should consider going somewhere else. It is never a good idea to bottle your feelings just for someone else's sake. Good luck and PM me if you ever want to talk. ~Caitlin

FullyAlive
March 24th, 2011, 01:05 PM
If I were you id sit them down and explain it to them, you're born Bi it's not something that you can change or supress, it's natural. If they still dont accept it then maybe lie or at least not be open about it. Or just wait to date until after you move out :/ so try and explain it first?.

Love.Hate
March 24th, 2011, 02:43 PM
I think it's unfair, you need to talk up them.
Ask them what is wrong with being bi?
Because there isn't anything wrong with it. It's who you are and you shouldn't change for anybody not even your parents. Be true to who you are :)

PoseidonX43
March 24th, 2011, 03:54 PM
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Love.Hate
March 24th, 2011, 04:21 PM
Well you won't have to follow your parents rules forever. When you leave home you can be who you really want to be. Just got to pull through this I'm afraid :/
Life sucks sometimes.

PoseidonX43
March 24th, 2011, 10:50 PM
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