Text Flirting

[chrism52]

Hello so i recently got my best friends number (finally) and we send each other texts. It's great hearing from her and chatting, whenever i send a message almost immediately she sends one back. :wub:
Everythings wonderful my question is i think she might be flirting with me, she asks how/what im doing and sends lots of smilies like :), ;), :P and :D could this be considered flirting?

[music is my soul]

could it be considered flirting. yes. is it, i dont know but i think so.

[The Madness.]

It all depends about the topic of your conversation exc. People use smilies like that whenever they're texting, it's different for every person. People asking how/what you're doing is usually just to make more conversation so your convo doesn't get stupid or boring.

[chrism52]

I think she is we where chatting not long ago and heres what we said.
Me: So what colours ur hair this weather :p
Her: Still black need to wait till i get money so i can dye it :p

time to go in for the kill

Me: Mind if i suggest one? i kinda liked when it was a rouge colour but hey its ur choice :)
Her: Awesome i kinda liked it like that too but i prefer more than one colour or something bright :D
Me: I think once you even went blu lol thats cool whatever floats ur boat ;D
Her: That was cool my hair blu but my mum went mental hahah lol

this is it

Me: Mothers :/ haha i 4 one don't dye my hair yeh boring lol even if ur hair was green i wouldnt care
Artistic + Colour = You :)

cheesy i know :rolleyes:

Her: Aaww thank you that's ssoo sweet :)
Me: No prob i can be cute when i want 2 ^_^ (yeh i just used that) ill let u go 2 sleep now :)
Her: Aww thanks I will t3xt ya la8ter ok nighty night :D

So what do you think?

[Bluesman]

Could be but honestly a lot of girls use smileys a lot to start with... if you want you can just say something like "hmmm... r u flirting with me? ;)" and see what she says... it could either work or completely backfire. If you play it right though you should be able to find out. And if she isn't it will give her a hint that you might like her... it worked for me! Sorry if this post is kinda random but I'm still half asleep.

[Kiss]

Sorry to be the one that says this but it doesn't sound like she's flirting with you, I mean a lot of people use smileys and when you complimented her she replied like that maybe because she was being nice. Plus texts can be misleading and it's not the same so I think if you want to know about the flirting you can't do it through text imo. Good luck! :D

[INACTIVE_USER]

no - I send so many things like :D :) to my friends and even kiss Xs but I am not flirting. I would wait for a while and then it might become more clear

[FullyAlive]

The conversation you've wrote down doesn't sound like flirting whatsoever it sounds like your average everyday conversation. I use lots of smilies when texting anyone, but I'm not flirting. And again asking how you are/what you're doing, is normal I ask this of my friends via text all the time, I'm not flirting, I'm just caring about them. I love my friends but not the same way I love my boyfriend.
I think you're reading a lot into you're conversations, I'm not saying she doesn't like you but if she does I highly doubt she's been flirting. However if you like her, maybe you should say something?

[purplebreez95]

Could be but honestly a lot of girls use smileys a lot to start with... if you want you can just say something like "hmmm... r u flirting with me? ;)" and see what she says... it could either work or completely backfire. If you play it right though you should be able to find out. And if she isn't it will give her a hint that you might like her... it worked for me! Sorry if this post is kinda random but I'm still half asleep.

yes it did work on me lol :) ;)

[Italian Stallion]

i suppose its saughta flirting.... u obviously like her though

[Bluesman]

yes it did work on me lol :) ;)

It certainly did... wow after like 4 months you've had your first post... CONGRATS! Its about time!

[purplebreez95]

It certainly did... wow after like 4 months you've had your first post... CONGRATS! Its about time!

oh hush i just hadnt felt the need to post anything...

[Bluesman]

oh hush i just hadnt felt the need to post anything...

Sorry... just saying lol... and we should prolly let this dudes thread alone so he can see helpful stuff...

[Bmilli]

i feel like everyone texts exactly the same lol when they don't want to be just blatantly sexual if that's where your wanting to go with this relationship? because all the conversations or most (when i don't work up the courage to just as a sexual question or say something sexual). i feel that sh is flirting but sometimes girls are hard to read i suggest if your trying to take this relationship further just come out and say something sexual or risque. if she takes the bait your in there. this can also start so really interesting conversations. and with the cheesy thing don't be afraid to be as cheesy as the moon for some reason what us guys think is cheesy or corny girls think is sweet or funny haha. trust me i speak from experience.

Hope this helps.

B.milli

[Sage]

Don't use "bait," it lands you in the friend zone.

[Bmilli]

well not exactly bait. let me change that from bait to if she goes with it.

[Sage]

well not exactly bait. let me change that from bait to if she goes with it.

Calling it something else doesn't change it.

[Bard95]

It all depends on topic of discussion? Really, she could just be a reallly happy person:D I have a friend like that and it gets confusing sometimes Haha

[Spook]

It could be. Do you like her? :)