First time sex

[xhelgrindx]

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and 2 months and we both want to have sex. We are both virgins. The only thing stopping us is the fear of her becoming pregnant. The only form of birth control we have access to are condoms. Me and this girl are very happy and very much in love and want to someday be married. Right now we are not ready for a child and do not want a child until we have at least both graduated from college and have jobs. Please give me suggestions and comments.

[shyed2011]

condoms should work mate thats how must people have sex if our really worried put on two condoms that way if one brakes you still have a bake up or you could always pull out even when wearing a condom if your really scared

[swindy43]

yup,agreed with u.

[green]

DO NOT PUT ON TWO CONDOMS!!!!!!!! they rub together and break really quickly. just use a condom and get her to go on the pill.

[xhelgrindx]

DO NOT PUT ON TWO CONDOMS!!!!!!!! they rub together and break really quickly. just use a condom and get her to go on the pill.

Haha ya i already knew this they're trying to screw me over or they're aren't very smart =P

[xhelgrindx]

DO NOT PUT ON TWO CONDOMS!!!!!!!! they rub together and break really quickly. just use a condom and get her to go on the pill.

She can't get on the pill her parents will know cause it will be on her medical records or something like that and her parents will not approve.

[FullyAlive]

Just using a condom should be fine.
She could also work out when she is not ovulating.

And if she did want to go on the pill, the doctor shouldn't tell parents at least not in England, but she could just tell her parents that she needs it to help with cramps?

[RAWWR]

Condoms are the best form of contraception, and if you're in the UK then the doctor will be confidential, her parents won't find out. I don't know about any other countrys though.

[Hatsune Miku]

condoms should work mate thats how must people have sex if our really worried put on two condoms that way if one brakes you still have a bake up or you could always pull out even when wearing a condom if your really scared

Damn, you're a dumbass.

If you don't feel like you're ready to have sex, then don't have sex. When you have sex, even with condoms, you're taking a risk at getting her pregnant. But if you be careful you should be fine. Check to make sure there's no holes in it or anything, put it on the right way, the usual precautions. A male condom is about 98% effective, so you shouldn't worry too much. Just remember to be safe.

[Iron Man]

condoms should work mate thats how must people have sex if our really worried put on two condoms that way if one brakes you still have a bake up or you could always pull out even when wearing a condom if your really scared

Seriously? Two condoms? That explains your child. On a serious note, don`t ever use two condoms. They will rub together and break.

[The Madness.]

When you're both ready, then have sex. Don't do anything both of you aren't sure about. Condoms almost always work, so don't worry too much. If you girlfriend can ever get birth control some way, even if it's not right away, try that. Just take the necessary precautions.

[xhelgrindx]

When you're both ready, then have sex. Don't do anything both of you aren't sure about. Condoms almost always work, so don't worry too much. If you girlfriend can ever get birth control some way, even if it's not right away, try that. Just take the necessary precautions.

Ya we both are ready and want to very much. Were just scared ik condoms almost always work but what if its that one time that it doesn't work or it breaks or something. I'm just kinda scared and so is she. We don't want a baby lol we want to finish school and get jobs and live life together just me and her for a little bit before we have kids.

[Limelight788]

Since you are considering having sex, I would advise against doing so until you and her get married and feel the desire to have kids, but I cannot stop you if you wish to have it now.

What I do recommend is that you take all necessary steps to prevent pregnancy while having sex, that means using a laytex condom and using it correctly. Try to get birth control if where you live does not require your parents to know that you're taking them. Make sure to do other stuffs as well and before having sex, be sure whenever or not the risks is worth the benefit of having sex now instead of later.

I also want to inform you that getting tested for STD's is also a good thing, if you haven't done so anyway. Being teen parents is bad, but getting a STD is much, much worse. Most of them you will never be able to get off (HIV for example) and the last thing you want is to unintentionally carry the HIV virus for the rest of your life, regardless of whenever or not both of you are virgins or not (There are other ways to get the STD's, like old needle shots that inject into you). Even if you claim you and your girlfriend haven't done anything that may have gotten you a STD, just check to make sure.

I haven't had sex yet, as the risks behind having premarital sex makes the benefit not worth it and thus I will wait until I am married and a adult, but just be aware that there's more to worry about then pregnancy, which is already bad enough.

[Weeping]

Use a condom, and if you still don't feel safe enough, take it out of her when you feel it's time to ejaculate. And get "high-quality" condoms!

[Hatsune Miku]

Another tip. Avoid animal skin condoms. I know alot of people don't use them, but just a heads up. Skin has pores. Sperm can go through those pores very easily. Latex is best, if either of you have a latex allergy, then buy non-latex.

[qurious17]

Just relax it'll be fine. And enjoy !

[Vocabulous]

condoms should work mate thats how must people have sex if our really worried put on two condoms that way if one brakes you still have a bake up or you could always pull out even when wearing a condom if your really scared

DO NOT wear two! they will cause a lot of friction and wear down both of them.

[PinkFloyd]

Condoms have been proven as the second best form of birth control. The first is abstinance. ;)

My point is that when used correctly, condoms are your best bet.