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jonsin-jr
March 15th, 2011, 11:22 PM
or bicurious im really not sure yet :what:.. and i feel like the only way for me to find out 100% is to experiment with a guy. Now, i've never been in any kinda same sex situation or anything so i really don't know how to go about doin this... and its really urkin me. There is this this one guy that im not like best friends with or anything but we talk a little so we're cool with each other, and i think he might be kinda curious like i am ( he jokes around and acts gay alot but in a funny kinda way like touching butts or something) Recently he asked in a off handish kinda way if i was gay and i denied jokingly but now im starting to wonder if he was tryna be serious. So how do i show an interest in him w/out it gettin weird??? IM IN NEED OF SOME GOOD ADVICE PLEASE and thankyou :yawn: :D

Lights
March 16th, 2011, 12:55 PM
Well talking about sexuality can be a very delicate thing.
The thing I would suggest to you is working specially with getting to know him. The closer you are with him, the more likely he is to tell you something personal about himself like his sexuality - whether it be heterosexual or homosexual.
Of course, if you feel comfortable enough yourself, you could tell him about yourself in private, and how you're thinking about trying something with a boy. But in doing that, I strongly suggest you say that as something casual because if you make it sound casual and normal, he's less likely to make a scene of it if he doesn't happen to share the same interest as you. You never know though, your suspicions of this boy might turn out to work to work to your advantage.

Just remember to be smooth and natural when talking about it with him. If you are only bi-curious, it wouldn't be the best idea giving people the impression your gay or bi when you might not actually be.

If you've got any more questions, shoot them and I'll do my best to reply.
Good luck!

Great Perhaps
March 18th, 2011, 11:27 PM
^ it's pretty much all been said there. the only thing I can add is that figuring this out is hard and that it takes time. good luck!