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Skrate
March 14th, 2011, 06:25 PM
If he's gay? We've been good friends for awhile now (more than two years), and I've realized I have a huggge crush on him. I'm not sure if he's gay, but he could be, judging from his demeanor and personality (not overly gay, but...). I want to ask him so badly because he's been giving me these looks in school and I dunno what they mean.

Im a closeted bi, btw.

Bkylblk
March 14th, 2011, 06:38 PM
It really depends on your personality and his, if your more of a direct person just talk to him about it face to face. But if your a little more closed off and nervous then try sending signals back and bringing up the topic whenever you guys talk. Good Luck!

Skrate
March 14th, 2011, 06:47 PM
He came up to me and hugged me today (jokingly, might have been a cover)... Didn't want him to let go.

Goddamn! Why can't life be simple?

Lifeguard18
March 14th, 2011, 08:45 PM
If he's gay? We've been good friends for awhile now (more than two years), and I've realized I have a huggge crush on him. I'm not sure if he's gay, but he could be, judging from his demeanor and personality (not overly gay, but...). I want to ask him so badly because he's been giving me these looks in school and I dunno what they mean.

Im a closeted bi, btw.

I'm in 99% of your situation too, the guy I like doesn't give me many looks (but we do smile at each other a lot and were both obsessed with cats xD lmfao). But we always hug and joke around, and play call of duty together (online and together in the same place)

One time my friend was taking a picture of us in digital photography. She keep telling us to move in. She said stop. He continued to move his head because I felt his head touch mine a tad bit, so I was like, I'll move mine in more too. When she finally took the pic a few seconds later, she had a setting she wanted, our heads fully touched. I wanted to stay like that for a longer time and our arms were laying across our shoulders (like two good friends do when they walk. I really can't explain it too good in words. Lol) And our heads were a good amount apart when she said stop.

I'm gonna invite him over on Friday to hang out. And we are close to each other, but he doesn't know I'm bi.

What you have to do is hanging out with him is the main thing to do, and talk to him whenever you get the chance to either through a phone call, txt, facebook I'M and messaging.

If that helps and you feel even closer, tell him you are bi.

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