so how can I be comfortable to have sex?

[guyfromnowhere]

ok well I'm 14 and have been having oral sex like a lot. I'm too scared to let any of the guys at school anally penetrate me. I feel too uncomfortable. Like this guy I really think he's cute. I was on his couch making out and he takes off his shirt and I'm really into it. When he's about to fuck me I could let him do it. It just hurt for him to just touch the outside I couldn't even let him get insideme. It's not like I'm small I think I'm about average actually. I'm really interested in having sex and think I'm prepared just can't do it. So any advice?

[itsthat0n3kid]

um im straight but i think i can help you out.
if you arent comfortable then just dont do it.
wait alittle bit and then when you get comfortable then do it.
hope i helped dude:D

[kylek97]

just use lots of lube ang go slow

[Lights]

Difficult to consider, but remember you're 14 and it's actually illegal for you to be engaging in sexual activities that result in penetration.
Unless you feel absolutely right, I suggest you wait a little bit. You want your first real sexperience to be special, right?

[suza23]

Difficult to consider, but remember you're 14 and it's actually illegal for you to be engaging in sexual activities that result in penetration.
Unless you feel absolutely right, I suggest you wait a little bit. You want your first real sexperience to be special, right?

It's not illegal for two minors to have sex.

[Lights]

It's not illegal for two minors to have sex.

Depends on where you live. But in most places, it is illegal. Very few places in Europe and America would allow 14 year olds to legally have sex.
A lot of people on these forums are from America, so here's an image representing the age of consent there:

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/1/15/Age_of_Consent_-_north_america.png

Living in the UK myself, I know that under-age sex is illegal here.

[guyfromnowhere]

they allow for people over 13 to give consent to their peer. I just can't consentto an adult. Also in some parts of canada by my age you can have sex with anyone within two years of your age.

[tyler007]

Hey I know what you mean, my freind and i just did this last weekend too, He has been wanting me do it to him for a while so i did. It was harder than i thought, it would be, and took a few trys. But we final did it and enjoyed it. We used alot of lube and took it slow, he was on the bottom and with kness bent and we where face to face. It might take a while but if you both want it you can do it.

But we have been doing stuff together for a while, so my advice to you is take it slow, and dont rush into sex... sometimes just hanging out kissing and body contact is the best.

[smitty35]

yes, if you dony want to, you dont have to. If you do use alot of lube then you might not feel any pain.

[guyfromnowhere]

I do want to do it but I don't want so much pain with it.

[benjones1769]

ill never give or get anal
but ive heard its easier depending on the position
just use a lot of lube and i would guess it wouldnt hurt as bad

[XJRookie07]

just take it slow, use some lube, and maybe finger urself some to stretch out ur hoela little bit so its not as tight.

[AussieBiBoy]

Just wait dude, you are still really young. I know you probably really want to but your still really young and you dont want to do something you will regret. Just wait till you are ready :)

[suza23]

Depends on where you live. But in most places, it is illegal. Very few places in Europe and America would allow 14 year olds to legally have sex.
A lot of people on these forums are from America, so here's an image representing the age of consent there:

image (http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/1/15/Age_of_Consent_-_north_america.png)

Living in the UK myself, I know that under-age sex is illegal here.

In America where I am from the age of consent is still between 16-18 depending on the state. But with that being said a 14 year old can consent to another 14 year old having sex with them.

I haven't looked it up recently but aslong as there isn't a big age gap or an illegal age gap (17 year old and an 18 year old) it isn't illegal.

[ShaneK]

dont git hung up on it - jus enjoy. go wit watever floats ya boat. sharing ya body wit another can b an enjoyable an intermit experience. do watever ya comfortable wit. ya talkin anal (not ma taste) so ya wana use a lube ta make it easier