Experimenting

[KingFriday]

Im straight, but I have experimented before and I wanted to try it again, Does that make me gay?

[Disappear Completely]

Probably.

[obbylue]

It's hard to say either way but you really shouldn't worry about it right now (or ever really)! You'll be having desires and thoughts and wants for all different sorts of things especially through puberty and possibly/probably even afterward. Overall though if you identify as straight, wanting to do that doesn't make you gay! =)

[Mario T]

not at all

[jerry102]

nah, you just curious, nothing wrong with that

[Contra]

That doesn't necessarily make you gay, because through puberty you experience mixed feelings like those. The desire of experimenting is most likely a sexual feeling, so the only way you can decide whether you're gay or not is if you have any emotional connection with whom you're experimenting with.

[HikaruTheHunter]

No it does not because the word experiment is like a test. You are testing different things to come to a final conclusion or see what seems right. You may need to test that experiment a few more times before you get your end result. So no, it does not make you gay, so don't assume that right off the bat. :)

[Matt Matoran]

so just from reading what others have said on other posts like this, imma say that if you experiment again and really like it, then you are probably gay... just try it out and see what happens...

[smitty35]

No, it just makes you really curious. No worries. :-)

[mr.sexy_bomb]

you could be bi

[John417]

Maybe but its good to try new things!

[absdude]

u have to decide for yourself if your gay or not experiomenting has to correspond with your morals and knowing am i going too far or not. No one can say your gay besides you doesnt matter how amny guys youve played with you have to decide yourself

[mmmark1985]

It's confusing eh? Just because you want to experiment doesnt make you gay. Everybody thinks about doing stuff with their own sex sometimes or most people anyway. Its just about finding out what you like doing and not doing.

[Sosaku]

its kinda the same thing as this:

If i experiment with a vegie burger one night, and want to eat it again, does this make me vegetarian?

No, simply no, you are just exploring other options.

(I'm not saying vegie burgers and sexual acts coinside, but well, you get it)

[John Marston]

Nope, not at all. It's very normal to experiment and to want to experiment.

[kylek97]

nah... ur jus experimenting

[salty]

Makes you just horny

[AussieBiBoy]

makes you curious and it doesnt mean your not gay/bi but by the same token you could be. Its puberty but not every guy gets feelings for other guys so you could be gay/bi. nothing wrong with that though ;)

[Redevil]

No your not gay unless you jack off to your dad or something and don't be ashamed all the girls know I jack and they thinks it's cool trust me jacking leads to some pretty nice phone conversations with girls

[sieg]

only if you can see yourself being married to a guy and having a relationship with a guy

[Continuum]

No. lolz.

EDIT: Wait, I thought this was TWPR.

[XJRookie07]

It's hard to say either way but you really shouldn't worry about it right now (or ever really)! You'll be having desires and thoughts and wants for all different sorts of things especially through puberty and possibly/probably even afterward. Overall though if you identify as straight, wanting to do that doesn't make you gay! =)

Adding to this: You are what you are. Nobody here or anywhere knows if you are straight, gay, or bi. Only you can answer that question truthfully.

[bob skull]

it doesn't necessarily gay or bi,you're in puberty and your just experimenting :)

[salty]

agreed

[Bkylblk]

Doing something doesn't MAKE you gay, it just means your curious and you have acted on your curiosities

[Yianni]

its kinda the same thing as this:

If i experiment with a vegie burger one night, and want to eat it again, does this make me vegetarian?

No, simply no, you are just exploring other options.

(I'm not saying vegie burgers and sexual acts coinside, but well, you get it)

I was about to type up something ridiculously huge until i saw this... tottaly agree with it!

[Ben_E]

To me not gay, it's just friends having fun together

[mrsarett]

So, this guy keeps asking me if I j/o and what my fav porn site is
Do ya think he is hinting at something?
Maybe you should use his technique and play a reverse psychology thing
Or maybe start joking around about it and while your laughing be all like
"Hey maybe we should meet up and j/o or something"
Then if he gets all uncomfortable jut say you were joking
But if he says yes then you are a very lucky boy

[wolfguy]

if you have not had sex with a girl then no like me i am only with my best freind so no up to it dose not relly matter if you are dose not change muchs so i say no but it is up to you

[Kuntaw kid]

Curious you gay if your emotinally attracted to a male

[eggy101]

nup maybee curious but thats it :bigsmile:

[whiteyrhys]

It doesn't necessarily 'make you gay' it just means that you're still a teenager going through puberty which as I've always thought is the defining moment of a teenager's life.

If you feel as if you want to experiment again then do so, if you find it becoming more of a regular occurrence but you still like girls you may be bisexual or if not, you could just be gay. It depends.

[farmer42296]

No I think you would be straight-curious or bi

[Lovemeorleaveme]

Theres a sticky that explains what each sexuality is in detail, reading it will help you pinpoint your sexuality

[gig-guy]

it makes you curious, not gay

[redtukr]

no not at all you'll be done experimenting when your ready to even if thats when your 30

[DerBear]

Please don't bump old threads, the bump limit for Teen Sexuality is two months