Ugliness Am I Rational?

[factboy01]

Hello , I ' ve been having some personal issues mostly regarding , facial features . Ilook in the mirror rather too often and think who is that fugly piece of crap. Everyday when go to school Ifeel a sense of inferiority when looks ( facial features ) are taken into account . Recently I ' ve broken down in the library at school on Thursday . Basically judt reached my breaking point on that very day . I 've been struggling with these emotions, oftenI believe that if my nose wasn' t crooked Iwould not feel this way . These past three weeks couple of timesI nearly cut my face with a piece of small metal, just feeling / looking ugly . I ' ve tried everything it seems to solve this problem on my own still Ifind myself feeling this way , my friends have become worried . Ihonestly and greatly dislike my looks , it ' s the reason why Ido not spend much money on school portraits and why try to avoid cameras and be photographed. I ' m at my breaking point. .

[Skeptical Bear]

I'm somewhat on the same page as you are. Hang with your friends a lot and don't mind your looks. Get rid of any mirrors that are in your room. I'm sure if you don't look at your self as much, you won't be putting your self down so much for your looks, and don't physically hurt your self. It will only make it worse and bring you more emotional pain. Trust me. Just be a little more confident and talk about this to someone. Venting can help a lot. Especially if the person you're venting to, listens and comforts you in the process. Keep your head up high. Hope this helped a bit. :)

[Syvelocin]

I have the same sort of issues. How I get over it, is I find what I like about myself. I like my skin and my hair. And if you can't find something, CREATE something in yourself you'll like. I personally hated how I dressed. So I saved some money and changed my wardrobe. Take up an instrument you've been wanting to learn. Change what you can and learn to appreciate the rest. Get a hair cut. Gain/lose weight. Et cetera.

No one is perfect, but you can become someone you like, who is the real you somewhere deep inside. True beauty is always in the imperfections.

[StrongSilent]

I did a lot of things to change the way I looked when I had these issues. The thing I always found however, was that no matter what I did, or how good / bad I felt about myself, I still had the same problems with time management or test scores. I've lost a lot of weight, I've gained muscle, I've dyed my hair, you name it. All of these things feel good for a little while, but then life re-directs your attention to the task at hand.

What I'm trying to say is, you're young yet. Everyone here is. I don't know of a single person who will say that the best years of their life were in high school.

Enjoy where you're at for the moment and don't worry so much about how you look, because I can tell you from experience that focusing too much attention on it will take too much time away from what needs to be done with school or family or work.

Hope I helped, but if you need to talk feel free to VM me.

[ShaneK]

Always remember definitions of beauty vary wats ugly ta one peep is beauty ta another. Live life an don't worry bout how ya look

[Spook]

Shane's right. You don't need good looks to enjoy life. if you think that good looks brings happiness, why would you have friends? I don't know what you look like, but even if I did I wouldn't care. I could be talking to the ugliest person in the world or the most attractive person in the world through a sheet of steel and only base my feelings on how they act. So many people beat themselves up about their looks. But why? It's not going to change anything. And if you plan on cutting your face, do you think it will make you look better? :I

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I'm not being mean I am just saying that looks don't make who you are. I'm here to talk if you need to. PM me. :D

[justmehere]

Always remember definitions of beauty vary wats ugly ta one peep is beauty ta another. Live life an don't worry bout how ya look

He said it perfectly.
everyones beautiful in some way :)

[Magus]

I am as ugly as fuck. But I don't give a shit and or sit in front of the mirror and wonder why I was formed like this.

That's my shell. People should look for what's inside and not the outside. If they judge the book by its cover, then you will know they are people not worthy of your presence. I actually take pride in the way I look. You just have to view it in a different way.
I don't need to look what others want to see or look so others can accept me. I am who I am. If you don't like how I naturally look, then here are four walls, you are welcome to hit your head on any one of them.

Well, that's my philosophy. If you take it or not, it is up to you.

Fuck rhinoplasty. Bent noses ftw.

[Continuum]

Everyone. Everyone is butt fucking ugly without any hopes of reprisal. Whatever they do, they're still ugly, so why bother? Since everyone is human in some way or another, it's pointless to create inequality between each other. Yes, you have a crooked nose. THAT DOES NOT MAKE YOU LESS OF A HUMAN, REGARDLESS OF WHAT 'THEY' SAY. You can change it all you want, it's that pointless. Everyone is at the same page as you, and in time it will soon fade away. Live your life what you want it to be, and don't worry of what others may or may not think, because they themselves are not who the want themselves to be.

Well, it's all up to you. This is my opinion in personal vanity and self-pity.