extreme confusion?!!!

[Matt Matoran]

hey, so i recently started liking my best friend (we are both guys) but i've always liked girls (and still do). i want to have a sexual relationship with a girl, but a more emotional relationship with this one guy (i don't like any other guys and don't find any other guys attractive at all). the furthest i would go with this one guy is kissing, but i wouldn't go any further than that because the rest seems a little gross to me. i want to go all the way with a girl, but not this guy i like. i was wondering what this means?

[ackmedsgirl666]

bi-curious meaning ur not exactly sure yet

[joejshmo]

Dude me too. Don't know what to do! lol

[Quahog]

You are probably just curious. Maybe you are still experimenting with your sexuality. Nothing is wrong with that. You don't have to do anything, you are uncomfortable doing.

[Lights]

Sounds very curious to me. I mean, you've said that you think going past a certain stage with a boy is "gross", so that kind of says it all. Most likely your hormones are bouncing around right now, but you could find that you're bisexual.

[Matt Matoran]

hey, thanks for the replies everyone! im seeing him tomorrow at a party, but i dunno what to do... i want to tell him that i want to be in a relationship with him, but i don't want him to think its something sexual... i just want to kiss and thats all... nothing past that... what should i do??!! i really like him btw... its like all i can think about right now...

[Quahog]

hey, thanks for the replies everyone! im seeing him tomorrow at a party, but i dunno what to do... i want to tell him that i want to be in a relationship with him, but i don't want him to think its something sexual... i just want to kiss and thats all... nothing past that... what should i do??!! i really like him btw... its like all i can think about right now...

Like I said, don't do anything you are uncomfortable doing. Just take it slow. If you like him, but don't like him in a sexual way, start off slow. Just become a friend of his at first. There is no rush to any of this. :)

[Matt Matoran]

yea, thats the thing though... he is a really close friend and told me last week that i was his best friend while we were hanging out... thinking about that makes me feel bad that i have these kinds of feelings and havent told him about it... we always get touchy-feely whenever we see each other, like i rub his thighs and he pokes and tickles me, we just have fun... but i dont think he is doing it for the same reasons that i am...

[smitty35]

I think you are just bi-curious, nothing to be ashamed of.

[itsthat0n3kid]

yea, thats the thing though... he is a really close friend and told me last week that i was his best friend while we were hanging out... thinking about that makes me feel bad that i have these kinds of feelings and havent told him about it... we always get touchy-feely whenever we see each other, like i rub his thighs and he pokes and tickles me, we just have fun... but i dont think he is doing it for the same reasons that i am...

well dude maybe he likes you too. sounds like it to me. just talk to him about it.
good luck dude.

[Matt Matoran]

hey everyone... so me and my friend talked today and i was joking around with him about a guy cheating on his girlfriend with another guy, and he was basically like "yea, if thats what you are thinking is going to happen right now, my lips are closed for you"... i was really heartbroken but tried to make it seem like i didnt care even though i really did... i think he saw that i did actually want that and he didnt talk to me on the way back home in he car... i really just want to forget about him now and forget that we were once friends... just basically forget i ever met him... can anyone help me with this? im really confused... i want to forget, but i also cant stop thinking about it...