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Luxe
March 11th, 2011, 01:42 PM
Me and my best friend were really really close, we did most things together and were always there for each other. But then about three months ago she got a boyfriend, at first it was really hard for me but I did accept that I wasn't the only person in her life anymore. I did tell her that I felt very alone because she had totally replaced me with a boy, about two months ago but it didn't make any difference. Now months later all she does is snap at me, she never replies to my texts or phone calls and she's just so distant that we might as well not talk at all. And for about the past two weeks we’ve hardly spoken at all.
I've talked to one of my other close friends about it and she agrees with me about the whole thing, that my best friend has completely closed me from her life and all she cares about anymore is her boyfriend.
I don't know what to do, I feel like I've completely lost the one person in my life that I could count on and she doesn't ever care. Any advice?

Ambrosia
March 11th, 2011, 01:49 PM
Give it time and wait. They won't be together forever and, when they finally break up and she comes running back, point out that it's "Odd how you ignored us when you two were together. What makes you think you can come back now?"

It's bs when girls do this but it always happens. It's unstoppable. You'll do it too when you get one and it does suck. But give it time and let it run it's course. Make new friends and find people you can be friends with when you guys are going through these new boyfriend phases.

Quahog
March 12th, 2011, 01:07 AM
Well, you have to decide for yourself. Do you think there is anything left in your friendship? If she keeps avoiding you, and ignoring you, you have to take action. I really don't know whether or not she is doing this because she no longer wants to be with you, or if she is just to busy for you. I am really sorry that you are losing your best friend. Have you tried going to her house? You said you couldn't get into contact with her any other way, so why don't you go to her place? At least get some clearance. Get to the bottom of it. Find out is it just because she forgot about you or if this is her way of letting you know that the two of you are no longer friends.

I really hope things go well for you. I don't want you to lose your best friend over something like this. Just find a way to talk to her. Sometimes things like that cause friends to sort of distance themselves from each other. Don't give up hope. At least get some more information about this. Good luck. :)