Damn. Please Help.

[WriterAnonymous]

Okay, so I just went on the first date with this girl I really like. I decided, since it was the first date, that I should play it safe. So we just talked, and I decided not to put my arm over her shoulder or anything, just to be safe. My other friend was on a date the same night, also his first date with the girl. He was talking about how he put is arm over her shoulder and everything, so I started getting worried that maybe I was too cautious. Now it kind of seems like this girl is trying to avoid me in school, and she's not really talking to me very much. I know it isn't because I smelled during the date or anything like that, because I checked thoroughly before I left, put on deoderant, brushed my teeth, and used mouth wash. My friend just suggested that we go on a double date with him and his date to ice skate, and I mentioned it to her, but she kind of shrugged it off. She doesn't like him very much, but I still can't get the possibility out of my mind that I screwed everything up on the first date, and now she doesn't want to go on another one. She said she had a good time on the date, but I can't get that feeling out of the pit of my stomach that I messed up. It also doesn't help that I worry about everything on an extreme level. Any advice?

[Maverick]

She may just not be interested in you. Not putting your arm around her isn't enough to completely turn someone off. There are certain factors that you have that you can't "screw up" on. It's just how you are. She may just not like how you are. If she's brushing you off and doesn't seem interested, move on and try someone new, but don't think you messed up because you didn't touch her. There probably wasn't anything you could do to get her interested in you anyway.

[WriterAnonymous]

She may just not be interested in you. Not putting your arm around her isn't enough to completely turn someone off. There are certain factors that you have that you can't "screw up" on. It's just how you are. She may just not like how you are. If she's brushing you off and doesn't seem interested, move on and try someone new, but don't think you messed up because you didn't touch her. There probably wasn't anything you could do to get her interested in you anyway.
The thing is though, she was interested. We've dated before, but I consider this our first date since breaking up before ( it was years ago, )and lately we've been hanging out and she'd lay her head on my shoulder and flirt and everything. But there's also the fact that I'm pretty sure she isn't over her ex yet.