Stuck : S

[XxMurderedKissesxX]

At first I thought it was bc we where just starting to get physical...But now its all we ever do, or talk about. And when he feels me tense up & asks whats wrong, I dunno how to tell him that im getting a flashback...What should I do?

[Ambrosia]

TELL him. You can't just keep it to yourself. That is why people always say "Sex ruins a relationship". Now, getting physical doesn't really mean it will ruin it but if you don't explain to him how you're feeling then it will consume the bond between the two of you and nothing will ever be the same.

You need to explain to him how the physical aspect of the relationship is effecting your mind set. He won't know to be gentle or take it slow if he thinks it's all good in your head when he gets close. A relationship will never work out if you aren't open and if you truely feel you are close enough to him to get physical then you should be able to talk to him.