I Need a Bit Of Help... :/

[WakeyEr]

I tried weed, about 3 weeks ago, with some of my close friends. And I liked it. But now, its not the fact that I cant stop, because I can. Its that, I do not know if I want to.

Today, Me and my mom where talking, Im going to a party saturday, and there is going to be alcohol. Well, my mom dose not mind me drinking, she just wants me to be responsible with it.. So we started talking and then mom started talking about my dad. I haven't talked to my dad in over 8 years because he's a heavy alcoholic and drug abuser. And Its all in his side of the family. We where talking about how, Im her boy, and how she wants me to have a good life and not destroy what I have, like my dad. She stared to talk about how I am the only one on his side of the family that has not done drugs. And now i am not.

I honestly do not know what to do. My mom thinks I am this perfect angle and I am not now. Its not like I smoke it every day, its been 4 days sence I had one. I do not do it all the time.. I just need help with this, thanks!

[Wicked_Syn]

I honestly do not know what to do. My mom thinks I am this perfect angle and I am not now. Its not like I smoke it every day, its been 4 days sence I had one. I do not do it all the time.. I just need help with this, thanks!

Just because you have smoked weed, doesn't mean that you still aren't a good person. You know you are a true teenager if you want to try stuff like that. Most teens will try it at one point in their life.

I myself though tried weed for the first time in like September. Lately I have been smoking more than I was when I started. Partly because I can smoke it easier now, BUT anyway, for me, I know I can stop if I want, like you..I don't want to stop. If you can control yourself, and not let marijuana lead you into other drugs, then in my opinion, you have nothing to worry about at all. But if you fear it will lead you into other situations, honestly then I would consider going out for help.

In all honesty, if you need any more help, just PM me cause I am going through the same thing.

[ackmedsgirl666]

everybody makes mistakes man
nobody is perfect but just cuz u tried weed does not make u bad
do u wanna stop cuz thats the real question?
if u cant make urself stop i think u should speak to your mom and admit your mistake.. thats the best thing u can do right now.....

don;t feel like u need to kep smoking it to feel cool and fit it.. just try not to let yourself stray towards the weed again......
anyways best of luck and hope u make the right descision :)

[staying_alive]

everybody makes mistakes man
nobody is perfect but just cuz u tried weed does not make u bad
do u wanna stop cuz thats the real question?
if u cant make urself stop i think u should speak to your mom and admit your mistake.. thats the best thing u can do right now.....
don;t feel like u need to kep smoking it to feel cool and fit it.. just try not to let yourself stray towards the weed again......
anyways best of luck and hope u make the right descision :)

The bolded part is definitely not the best thing to do right now.

OP, take it easy. Weed isn't physically addictive so you can stop at any time without doing your body harm. It's really a decision you can make on your own - people don't continue to smoke weed to fill a void in themselves (read: weed ≠ heroin), so quitting is a matter of getting rid of whatever weed you have and turning down invitations to smoke with friends.

I'm sure your mom wouldn't freak out (sounds like a pretty reasonable parent) but it's not something to tell her...yet. You'll know if it becomes too much of a problem (which is a VERY small likelihood) and you need to reach out for help.

Good luck.