HAVE a girlriend, WANT a boyfriend!

[grstl]

My girlfriend knows that I prefer guys but we still are good enough together for her. I would also like a boyfriend to really meet my needs (especially sex). Does anyone have experience having both at the same time? Any advice?

[nick]

Well my advice is dont do it. No bf or gf really wants to be shared and its not fair to expect that. Being bi shouldnt mean that you need to be experiencing both types of sex all the time, it should mean that you cant prejudge whether the next person you fall in love with will be your own sex or the opposite sex. Either way they are entitled not to be cheated on.

[sieg]

do what makes you happy.

[Sosaku]

Dont, if you are more interested in sex, (sorry for being blunt but...) dump her and get a boyfriend. If you want a serious relationship, then stay with her. DO NOT cheat, that will ruin everything for you

[Quahog]

You can't do that. You are going behind two people. That isn't right. If you aren't happy with your girlfriend, break up with her, but if you are in a committed relationship, they there is no reason for you to date someone on the side. Even though she might be accepting of you being attracted to men, I'm sure she wouldn't like you having a relationship with a guy, along with having a relationship with her at the same time. Follow your heart, and decide what is best for you. Sit down, and actually chat about this with her, and I'm sure you will be able to come to some sort of solution for this.

[smitty35]

No I don't experiance this.