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Bobmcguydude
March 2nd, 2011, 07:09 PM
Well I am 13 years old and have recently started masturbating, However whenever I orgasm I get either no, or a mild relaxing pleasure. In most cases, the buildup is more pleasurable than the release.

I am not on any medications. So does anyone know what us going on?
smitty35
March 2nd, 2011, 07:21 PM
I think it is because you are still only 13. As you get older your body develops more and you achieve more better orgasms
itsthat0n3kid
March 2nd, 2011, 07:46 PM
smitty is very right. its all about age. trust me dude i know what your going through. last year for me it was nothing and now its the best feeling in the world.
notsure101
March 2nd, 2011, 08:05 PM
You gotta wait, your only 13, I used to be the same way, but then when I was able to ejaculate it was alot better.
sieg
March 2nd, 2011, 08:17 PM
just chill out man, its all about age... wait it out and then try
ilo2011
March 2nd, 2011, 09:15 PM
Just wait it out dude. It gets better with age.
Rutherford The Brave
March 2nd, 2011, 09:22 PM
Just wait till you have sex kid, its like eating the best food and jumping over a rainbow.
xDLOL
March 2nd, 2011, 10:19 PM
I don't know if it's against the rules to post techniques but...

1. DON'T RUSH IT, enjoy it
2. Get really close then stop, it makes you want to CUM, BAD.
3. Have fun while doing it
4. Porn is a must for me, idk about you guys
adam1995
March 3rd, 2011, 07:53 AM
Kind of weird... I have to disagree with most of the posters here. To me, when I first started masterbating, my orgasms were totally intense, no matter what I did. Now a few years later, sometimes there duds. If I don't do the stop and go thing or somethign like that, theres a good chance that my orgasm wont be great. Dont get me wrong they still feel good just not as mind blowing as they were. I've talked to some of my freinds and they tell me the same thing.
Donkey
March 3rd, 2011, 01:52 PM
There are things you can do to improve your orgasms and masturbation in general however we are not allowed to discuss that here at VT. We're allowed, though, to send you over to http://jackinworld.com/ to do some reading - I recommend it.

Everyone has a personal feeling with an orgasm, maybe it will get better with time, maybe not. But you can be sure that, as Gregory says, orgasms during sex are definitely the best. Don't worry about it man, there are better orgasms ahead of you in life :P
MariettaNate1995
March 3rd, 2011, 02:15 PM
It gets better with age. You're still developing.
Coolcat1314
March 3rd, 2011, 04:56 PM
I'm tha same way as adam. My orgasms used to be so intense all the time but now sometimes there not as great. Maybe u get used to the feeling and its not as exciting?
Bobmcguydude
March 3rd, 2011, 05:46 PM
I've already gone to Jack in world and even with trying everything(reading erotica or whatever it's called, stop and go) it still isn't all that great, it's just " good"

Also it is rather odd how some others are having the opposite problem.
jrl1996
March 3rd, 2011, 11:41 PM
youre to young nature will give you better orgasms haha
darkwoon
March 4th, 2011, 04:35 PM
I've already gone to Jack in world and even with trying everything(reading erotica or whatever it's called, stop and go) it still isn't all that great, it's just " good"

Also it is rather odd how some others are having the opposite problem.
Possible that's because you're too young, though I'd tend to agree with Adam on this - I started around 11, and it always felt quite great.

Maybe it is a question of technique (holding too tight, etc). But actually, as long as it feels good to do it, then you shouldn't worry much about that ;).