View Full Version : I'm confused is she crawling back or playing mind games
Hokage
March 2nd, 2011, 08:06 AM
Okay I know some of you read my last thread "What is a break and how long does it last" well something has come up, after she broke up with me we barley spoke for a whole week, just hi and smiles in the hallway. But on Monday February 28th she called me at 6pm out of nowhere and we spoke 'till 7pm. She asked how I was doing and I asked how she was doing. Then she goes to mention that the guy she left me for isn't who she thought he was. he treats her like "shit",he physically hurt her and when she was crying because she found out that her grandpa is in the hospital and isn't going to make it. She calls him and all he could do is talk about sex to her rather than comfort her which is what I would do and she knows that. She then mentions that she still cuddles every single night with that Build-A-Bear I gave her for Valentines day and that it still smells very good like me. We ended up talking a lot more yesterday and then she calls me again at 8pm and talked 'till 9pm. She told me that she misses me and that she broke up with her dbag boyfriend. She also said that when she saw me the knots in her stomach came back, that she kept flirting with me and couldn't help it, and that she really really wanted to kiss me right on the spot but didn't know how I felt about her. I still like her I really do but I don't know if I should go back with someone who's cheated on me, what should I do? (sorry for the long read)
Great Perhaps
March 2nd, 2011, 10:49 AM
from what you said, it seems like she really likes you. and If you really like her, and you are willing to forgive her, then I'm sure you could work it out. If you feel comfortable with her and you feel like you want to, then you should do it. but it's really up to you in this situation.
music is my soul
March 2nd, 2011, 04:24 PM
i agree with great perhaps. do what your gut says. it seems she still really likes you.
Rutherford The Brave
March 2nd, 2011, 04:48 PM
Im want you to be be honest with me, because this is serious. If she wants you back shell come to you. Make her come to you if you want it back, dont let her if you dont.
Hokage
March 2nd, 2011, 07:11 PM
I see what you guys mean, I am pretty confident that she still likes me but how do I know she won't cheat again?
music is my soul
March 3rd, 2011, 03:49 PM
if she really loves you she wont cheat on you again
gingeylover14
March 3rd, 2011, 05:04 PM
yall should talk and decide together mabee try group dating or just hanginn out together and c what happens
MariettaNate1995
March 4th, 2011, 10:14 AM
I don't think she is trying to play mind games with you. It does sound like she is trying to crawl back to you. If you do decide to get back with her, there is a good chance that she will cheat on you again, so just be prepared for that possibility.
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