Friend wants bj

[qin_da_ke_shu]

Okay, so my friend was like yea come over to my house and we can ride dirtbikes and what not. Of course, I said yes, but then I get a txt that says I know you have a girlfriend and all, but will you give me a bj or I can give you one? What do I say?!

[itsthat0n3kid]

depends what you think about it. do you want to?
message me if you need to talk or just advice brah.

[Fruit_Tart.]

Do what you think is the best for you. If you feel uncomfortable in anyway with what he asks just tell him no. You have a girlfriend too so that might sorta mess up your relationship, but i dunno if you'd care. It's all up to you in the end though.

[jerry102]

well it depends on how you feel about it, do you want to or not, this could also change the way ya feel about each other, you may feel uncomfortable be around him, so if you are going to do this, think about how this would affect you and your friends relationship

[danstheman24]

It all depends on how you feel, personally I wouldnt do it BUT thats your choice.

Should you wish to give him a Bj please hear me out!
1. He must have a condom over his cock (Flavoured one if you like).

I'm saying he would need a condom over his cock because did you know that if your mouth comes into any contact with a mans penis or genitalia area mainly the cock YOU ARE putting yourself at risk of CANCER. Beleive me its true. Take a look here about Oral sex on Wikipedia and scroll down to the paragraph on
"HPV & Oral cancer link" I only foud out last year that you can get cancer from giving someone a Bj, its shocking!!

Cheers,
Dan.

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[AWSMGUY]

It's really a tough decision, because you may enjoy it, but it could ruin the friendship in many ways. You may feel uncomfortable around each other, or it could turn ugly if your girlfriend found out etc.

Do what you want, have fun, but be wary of the possible side effects.

[Demonfeet]

Well if you do it then technically ur cheating on your gf. But it depends on what you think, is it worth it to cheat on her? And this kinda thing might not happen again

[grstl]

If you have to ask about it, it sounds like you might even consider doing it. If you might consider doing it, then it sounds like you are also curious. If you are curious, then will you regret not taking the opportunity if you say no? If he was bold enough to ask, he should be ok with it and it shouldn't affect your friendship from his end......it is just up to you. What do you feel your gut telling you to do? I would jump at the chance....but then, I already have several times. But what is ok for me might not be ok for you.

[Donkey]

Experimentation. Welcome. First and foremost, in terms of not only ensuring that your friend is serious but also to discuss it properly, I'd catch him alone some time to talk about it in real life. If it's by text, there is some chance that someone just took his phone and sent a silly message. If it's serious, however, experimentation in teens is very normal and is something to be enjoyed.

A few things to consider:

- You have a girlfriend, engaging in sexual activities outside of the relationship without her consent is dodgy. If you really like this girl, that should be your foremost concern. It's not right to do this if you're still dating her and she doesn't know.

- Do you actually want to? It's normal to have a bit of interest (due to those strong hormones released in early puberty that can cause absurd same-sex attraction) and give experimentation a go; just make sure you understand what's happening and how it might happen.

- How will this affect your relationship with your friend? Will the effect of experimenting be so that you could possibly damage your friendship? How close are you and what kind of relationship do you have?

Lots of things to think about - we can't decide for you, just ensure you make the right decision. :)

[jameshotti12boy]

if ur comfortable with doing it then why not have at it.

[PJay]

It all depends on how you feel, personally I wouldnt do it BUT thats your choice.

Should you wish to give him a Bj please hear me out!
1. He must have a condom over his cock (Flavoured one if you like).

I'm saying he would need a condom over his cock because did you know that if your mouth comes into any contact with a mans penis or genitalia area mainly the cock YOU ARE putting yourself at risk of CANCER. Beleive me its true. Take a look here about Oral sex on Wikipedia and scroll down to the paragraph on
"HPV & Oral cancer link" I only foud out last year that you can get cancer from giving someone a Bj, its shocking!!


Cheers,
Dan.


Ok just read up on your link and on HPV so lets put that into perspective. First off you have to catch a form of HPV. Then you have to catch a type that can lead to cancer. Then bear in mind that 70% of cases clear up naturally within a year and 90% within 2 years. Then read the bit about HPV that says that condoms aren't that effective in preventing it :(

The only 'safe sex' is abstinence, but remember you can catch things from kissing and holding hands too. More realistically the best thing to do if you are worried about this sort of risk is to get tested for STDs before having any sort of sex with a new partner in my view.

[jttaylor92]

It's really up to you. Do what you feel comfortable with. If you need any help you can message me, if you'd like.

[kylek97]

if u wanna do it then go 4 it.... it's fun

[smitty35]

The main question your have to ask yourself is: "Do you really want to do it?" Also, keep in mind that you still have a girl friend. And in a way you are betraying her by having sexual relations with another person. So in a way its like adultry in girlfriend/boyfriend terms.

[hollisterboi95]

It's your choice and it will affect everything after that. U have a girlfriend so I'm not sure what should be done although it kinda would be like cheating on her in a way.

[Sean the Griffin]

Point Donkey made about it being a joke - someone getting hold of his phone, that's a good point and I know cos it happened to a guy i know, soemone sent him a text from a girl's phone asking him for sex. I don't know if youve had some sort of sex with him before and he wants to move up a stage - if not it seems a bit odd to just ask that question out of the blue. But if youre OK with it and he is then seems OK to me. But if it would make you feel bad about your g/f then maybe you shouldn't do it or maybe you should think about what you would feel like if she had sex with another girl.

[sports fan1]

its as simple as knowing if your, say, hungry. if you want to, then feel free. if not, then don't.

[qin_da_ke_shu]

Thanks guys, I'm going over to his house Friday so I'll let you know how it goes!!

[sieg]

It all depends on how you feel, personally I wouldnt do it BUT thats your choice.

Should you wish to give him a Bj please hear me out!
1. He must have a condom over his cock (Flavoured one if you like).

I'm saying he would need a condom over his cock because did you know that if your mouth comes into any contact with a mans penis or genitalia area mainly the cock YOU ARE putting yourself at risk of CANCER. Beleive me its true. Take a look here about Oral sex on Wikipedia and scroll down to the paragraph on
"HPV & Oral cancer link" I only foud out last year that you can get cancer from giving someone a Bj, its shocking!!

Cheers,
Dan.

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Uhm wikipedia can be edited by crzy jerks who wanna scare you so get them lies out my face! and if this is true, then why isnt every girls face completely deformed? what about people from the past? they didnt have condoms and i doubt that blowjobs were cancer agents back then.

[rusty171610]

Well i think that if you want to do it and your friend wants to, then it shouldnt be awkard and you should just go for it and enjoy yourself. It's not really cheating if your just having a bit of fun with a guy. I wish I could experiment with someone and just have fun doing it.

[Mysterious Skin]

If you want To give/recieve Then go for it.
If not Then dont.

[AWSMGUY]

That cancer stuff if dodgey, just because everythings a risk.

"Using Mobile Phones will give you brain cancer"
"Red M&M's will give you cancer"
"Standing under powerlines will give you cancer".

To be fair, all of these have been proven, but barely anyone has got cancer from a Red M&M, etc.

Life is FULL of risks. Just gotta take the ones worth risking it all for. :)

[jimmy-magic]

We cant really tell you what to do, it depends on you and you only. depends on how close you are wit him, depends if you think it will affect your friendship afterwards, depends if you think he will want to go even further after it, and most importantly it depends if you are comfortable doing it and then if you even want to do it. It is entirely up to you.

[BigG]

Okay, so my friend was like yea come over to my house and we can ride dirtbikes and what not. Of course, I said yes, but then I get a txt that says I know you have a girlfriend and all, but will you give me a bj or I can give you one? What do I say?! Ultimately it's your chose but I advise you to either let this guy give u a BJ but you don't have to give him one, I'm who knows he may be really good at it and you'll get the sexual satisfaction and so will he. Just don't tell your girlfriend and you'll be fine.

[WADude34]

Just do whatever makes you comfortable

[Sebastian Michaelis]

hope you give it a chance because it is fun and not super risky if you both never had sexual contact with anyone else. Don't forget to tell us how it went down today.

[screammonster123]

this is common but it all depends on what you want to do there are other alternatives then giving sexual favors

[skichris]

if you're comfortable with it then sure.. i would maybe do Hj cuz im not gay, so idk.. im not saying you're gay if you did it, cuz its just experimenting but yeah.