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mzhockey1696
February 28th, 2011, 10:13 PM
So like when I invite my girl over to my house I normally just king of cuddle with her watch a movie in the dark. That kind of thing. My question is what do girls like to do? do they like cuddling or do they like doing something more?

Sage
February 28th, 2011, 10:22 PM
You know, women are just as varied and individualistic as guys can be. You can't expect all members of an entire gender to enjoy a certain thing. It depends who you're specifically dealing with.

Bluesman
February 28th, 2011, 10:30 PM
Same as what Sage said. Women are all different... if you're close enough to a girl to be cuddling you should know what she likes already...

Sage
February 28th, 2011, 10:37 PM
if you're close enough to a girl to be cuddling you should know what she likes already...

Aside from cuddling, of course.

Kaya
February 28th, 2011, 10:39 PM
Personally, just chilling is cool. Music is always awesome.

John Marston
March 1st, 2011, 08:03 AM
How about you ask her what she wants to do. She may say "oh idk" or whatever but she might actually suggest something. Tell her it can be anything and she should help you out. Although, like Sage said, not every girl is the same. Imo, music/chilling is a unisex activity that everyone loves. But that's imo.

love music
March 1st, 2011, 07:56 PM
every girl is different. you just have to find what makes her click i guess. watching a movie, listening to music, talking, its all good.

SportyCutie
March 2nd, 2011, 03:31 PM
Yeah I like to cuddle, but dont be too clingy. Like when I have a bf I dont want to be like cuddling and stuff all the time. I like my space too, so somewhere in between. When I hang out i like to watch movies, but i like to just chat too. Talk to her about what she wants

Fact
March 2nd, 2011, 06:19 PM
You know, women are just as varied and individualistic as guys can be. You can't expect all members of an entire gender to enjoy a certain thing. It depends who you're specifically dealing with.

Same as what Sage said. Women are all different... if you're close enough to a girl to be cuddling you should know what she likes already...

Yeah I like to cuddle, but dont be too clingy. Like when I have a bf I dont want to be like cuddling and stuff all the time. I like my space too, so somewhere in between. When I hang out i like to watch movies, but i like to just chat too. Talk to her about what she wants

All of these posts make perfectly valid points.

Presuming you're close and have spent time together watching movies, cuddling etc. then you should have a decent idea of what she's 'into'. Perhaps you could take 'hanging out' away from your home environment? Take her out somewhere - it doesn't have to cost anything. Does she have a hobby or a favourite place?

You don't have to go all extravagant, but if you're thinking that you want to move away from just cuddling, then appealing to each other's interests is always a start. Perhaps after that you could try something new together?