Theres so much Im now learning O_o

[MyRedHeadWorld]

Ok, Im 13 years old, Im pretty clean, like not 'dirty minded'. I know what sex is, what a blow job is, making out, But thats kinda it?
Its embaressing in a way cause I live in a very weird area with pregnant teens everywhere, horny boys, so Its like everyone knows EVERYTHING! I didnt even know girls can have orgasims or masturbate till this year? and I still dunno how girls masturbate O_o I didnt know so many of my guys friends 'wank' in there words, I didnt know so many people my age have actully done any of that let alone knowing it!! and a boy showed me his penis once and I was actully in shock! I was like "Omg! Its that big?! It looks like that?! Im such an idiot!!"
Is it normal for me to not know? Is there sank wrong with me?! DX

[Azunite]

Well, first of all you are thirteen. It is, well, really a strange area that you live in but it is no problem. Usually girls don't learn all that stuff until your age anyway. If you think they won't make you embarassed or something, you could always ask a close friend of yours to tell what is going on. "Looking that stuff on the net" may change your opinion of sexual stuff and may affect your pshycology so it is best to ask someone.

Don't worry, you still have a lot of time to learn what is going on

[smitty35]

like the guy above me said: You are only 13. You will learn as time passes garunteed. so no wories

[Donkey]

Guys tend to know more :lol: Don't sweat it, I learned most of what I did through VT anyway. I live in a part of the UK where it's just not discussed.

[Vkid]

it's not weird at all that u dont know, thats kind of how i was at 13...highschool changes things lol

you are how the rest of the world SHUD be!

it's crazy that there are soo many pre teens and young teens out there having sex

don't feel embarrassed, you will learn things....ur right where u shud be imo! :)

[closed]

It's ok. You shouldn't be ashamed of anything :)
When hormones come, you will find out everything.. Don't be stressed out... Just take your time for everything... Best thing to do is to talk to your bff (GIRL!) or something about it, and it will make life easier for you.
Don't worry about it :HUG:

[FBNIL97]

Just because you dont know much, doesn't mean you should be callin urself an idiot. everyone has a different rate of learning. im 13 and i didnt learn most stuff till last year.

[Fact]

Ok, Im 13 years old, Im pretty clean, like not 'dirty minded'. I know what sex is, what a blow job is, making out, But thats kinda it?
Its embaressing in a way cause I live in a very weird area with pregnant teens everywhere, horny boys, so Its like everyone knows EVERYTHING! I didnt even know girls can have orgasims or masturbate till this year? and I still dunno how girls masturbate O_o I didnt know so many of my guys friends 'wank' in there words, I didnt know so many people my age have actully done any of that let alone knowing it!! and a boy showed me his penis once and I was actully in shock! I was like "Omg! Its that big?! It looks like that?! Im such an idiot!!"
Is it normal for me to not know? Is there sank wrong with me?! DX

As everyone has said, there's nothing 'wrong' with you for not knowing. It's perfectly normal to not know all that much about other people's sexual experiences if you have none of your own.

You said you were shocked when you saw the size of your friend's penis - do bear in mind that like breasts, all penises are different. It is a possibility that your friend wanted to show off his size and that's why he showed you. I could be wrong, but still, just to ease your mind on that one :P

Just enjoy growing up and finding out more about puberty and sex! There's plenty of resources around VT and if you ever have questions (within reason) then you can ask here.

[screammonster123]

your completely normal, you said there is a lot of pregnant girls and horny boys so i am sure you will learn it fast

[Roses_Are_Yellow]

Nah, there's nothing wrong with you for not knowing.it's different for everybody. I started to find out what things were when I was in 5th grade (but that's because at lunch time, the kids in my class were brutal... I HATED the days where the school lunch was disgusting hot dogs.. O.o) when I was 12 , I knew a lot more then I had known in 5th grade. Now, I know what 'happy time' is, what jacking off is, and the sad thing is.. I'm ONLY GOING TO LEARN MORE NEXT MONTH :( the schools making my grade take a class..... I still don't know a lot though.

Don't worry, in fact, I envy you for not knowing what a lot of this is. The only reason I know this is because my friends have the most disgusting minds (which they kindly passed on to me) I wish I didn't know what some stuff is (ha... I wish I didn't know what a dingle berry was .. I blame my teacher for telling me (thats off topic) )

Basically, dont worry You have lots of time to find out :)

[Bard95]

I wish I was more like you actually! My friends were oh so gracious enough to pass on their "knowledge" to me. I learned what porn was in 4th grade and it inclined from there. So no nothing is wrong with you, in fact more people should be like you.