Am I a slut??

[MyRedHeadWorld]

Ok, so Im not gunna go around having sex with everyone, or flashing myself, But tbh, if I catch a boy looking at my boobs, I dont mind, In fact, joking around, I push em out going "Like what you see" (If we're close!!) and Im not ashamed to go out in shorts and short tops showing of my body or wearing alot of make up. I kinda wanna be able to kiss boys without strings attached, Relationships are to hard, and I have seen boys 'certain parts' before ;)
At my school, I could get called a slut for things like that, but tbh, Im not going to far in my opinion, Im just experinceing and having a laugh?
What do you guys think? :)

[Azunite]

Boys are just being boys, unless they do something phsyically to you without your "permission", it is o.k. to accept their looks and turn them into jokes, I guess

[MariettaNate1995]

You're not a slut. As long as you don't go and sleep with every guy you think is cute you're not a slut.

[smitty35]

A slut is really someone who goes around and sleeps with every guy in the school. So no, you aren't really a slut.

[Vkid]

its refreshing to know there is a girl out there thats not guna spaz out when she catches me lookin at her boobs

that said, i think ur kind of playing with fire, that kind of attitude where u want to be able to make out with "no strings attached" or w/e leads to a jaded way of thinking, and not everyone will be on the same page as you as far as intentions go

just be careful not to get a warped sense of reality

but i wouldn't necessarily consider you actions or that way of thinking to be "slutty"

[Fact]

its refreshing to know there is a girl out there thats not guna spaz out when she catches me lookin at her boobs

that said, i think ur kind of playing with fire, that kind of attitude where u want to be able to make out with "no strings attached" or w/e leads to a jaded way of thinking, and not everyone will be on the same page as you as far as intentions go

just be careful not to get a warped sense of reality

but i wouldn't necessarily consider you actions or that way of thinking to be "slutty"

This essentially.

I've read in some of your other posts that you're 13. I don't know how close to 14 you are, but your actions are not unforgivable for a 13 year old. As long as you learn how to behave in certain situations and don't extend your flirtatious behaviour where and when it's not wanted, then there's not much chance of people thinking you are 'slutty'. However, there will be people that would think that was slutty, mostly due to your age.

[Rubber]

yeah youd be a slut in mi school. Id hook up with your though lol i dig just having a good time. Its not the same with guys thank god lol

[MissPenguin]

no you're not a slut...it's okay to flirt around...that's one of the joys of being a girl..we can and not mean anything by it...enjoy yourself without getting carried away.

[Tadgh]

Your flirting, your not a slut.

[love music]

i dont think your a slut, i honestly just think you have some self-confidence issues. you wear that stuff for the attention you get, but you dont want anything serious. you just like to flirt and have fun because you probably dont want anyone getting close enough to you to see the you under the make-up and clothes. i hope thats not too harsh.

[MyRedHeadWorld]

i mean, I gotta say, I think some of the reson I dont want a close relationship is because Ive had them before and got hurt really bad :/

Anyway, thanks for the comments, Its good to know Im not as slutty as I thought that day O_o :)

[massivet]

No your not a slut at all. you just being a flirt and guys like that. Its not like your sleeping around with every single guy you meet. :)

[absdude]

id like to meet someone liek you

[Spook]

Hi Zoe...Personally, it makes me feel good and self-confident when guys look at my body. You aren't a slut! I mean, you don't go around stripping! :P Just be careful, if you lead guys on, you can be pulled into doing something you don't want to. :cool:

[DanielJoe]

thats kinda not how its supposed to be though, if u get my understanding. ur supposed to be with one person...

[chris4827]

i think thats thats fine, but be carefull ur kinda on the line..if u keep on acting like that then eventually some one is gonna want to take a shot at u...then youll have to face the music

[the wasabi]

slut means different things to different people.
you can be a slut by the way you dress/look, by the way you act, or what you do/things you've done.
from what i read, you're a pretty young girl and guys might start to take advantage of you as you grow older with that same attitude....but i wouldn't call you a slut.

if i would call you anything, it would be flirtatious. just watch out. :)

[passport]

Definitely not a slut i am gay tho so ya

[benjones1769]

not even close to what a slut is
yur cool. keep doing what YOU want to do

[tpzy94]

nope i like when a girl flirts back and stuff like that its fun

[sophiebeachgirl]

No Way, flirt yeah, hehe but no way are you a slut.

[electricfeel]

I wouldnt say your a slut, but id say your a sexual person. ^_^ lol

[gatorbait231]

one of those major points of why so many guys SOMETIMES wish they were girls.

[Nilnoc]

You're not a slut at all.

Just be careful, a lot of guys will try to get into your pants with that kind of attitude. So you gotta watch out, and don't hook up with every shuck you kiss.

[MyRedHeadWorld]

Wow, got some good responses, Im glad people are honast on here :D but dw, I am careful, I dont go chatting up people on the street and leading everyong on, In fact, febuary was a BAD month for me, Im alot better now :P
But thanks people!!! :D x

[anonymous53]

You're not a slut. Flirting is completely fine in the right situations, but if you get a boyfriend don't continue with it :) Also some guys might not be interested in a relationship if they see you going around and flirting with a lot of people.


Oops. Didn't see the dates, my apologies.

[Fact]

Oops. Didn't see the dates, my apologies.

There's nothing wrong with the date for this thread - you can post in a thread up to 2 months (3 months in Questions for Both) after the last post was made.

[Lil Ill]

st I don't think so but people will be judged by how you act even if they don't know you are understand your personality

[Deleted_Account7]

Sorry nvm

[Hunter Lily]

No, you're not a slut. You're just flirting. :) You might wanna watch out though because guys can get the wrong idea quickly, be prepared for that and you should be fine :D

[briannafrmhell]

Ha I do the same things you're not a slut. Be confident in your body and show what u have :)