Need advice..

[BobFM]

So I'll try to make this as short as possible. My best friend (A girl, im a guy) is completely ignoring me. I've known her forever, and she grew on me as more than a friend, and I couldn't NOT tell her, and I was hoping for easy rejection and things going back to normal. But she got "creeped out" or something, a bunch of her friends started texting me and annoying me saying, "You miss your girlfriend? ;)" etc etc. Even though I act like im ignoring her now, deep down I still love her, and I wish we could have been friends for life, which I know isn't common. Our families have known eachother since before we were born, because our dads were stationed together in the Middle East. If anyone has any suggestions, please reply. You'd be doing me a great favor.

[music is my soul]

personally i would just let it go by. i was in a situation lik yours once. i told this girl i grew up with that i liked her. she rejected me and we didnt talk for awhile but it pasted and we're still good friends. you guys will be back to normal in no time and for her friends....just ignore them. they are just trying to get your nerves. and for a final peice of advice dont be losing sleep over her. shes not the only girl in the world. wait a week or so and if she doesnt start talking to you, you try talking to her. good luck and im here if you ever need to talk.

[BobFM]

Thanks for the fast reply. And actually, it's been almost a month now and she hasn't spoken a word to me. And it's not just that her friends are annoying me, it's that she's talking through them to avoid me. This happened last year, and I texted her during the summer and we started talking again, but now it's happening all over again and worse this time. Thanks for the advice, though, I'll just wait this one out for a few months then try to talk to her over the summer again. =\

[music is my soul]

no problem for the quick reply but a quick question.... have u tried calling her or talking to her in person.

[BobFM]

She told me a while ago she isn't a phone person, but yes I've tried talking in person, we used to sit at the same lunch table and I'd try to say something to her, sometimes not even directly, and she'd roll her eyes and look away. About a week ago me and my friends moved to another table leaving her with just 1 of her friends...now I did NOT intend for my friends (who were her close friends as well) to abandon her, but that's what they did. I talked to them about it and they said, "Wherever you need us, we'll be there for you bro." So she might be a little mad about that, too.

[music is my soul]

try sitting with her again. maybe not just showing up at her lunch table tomorrow but just walk over during lunch and ask her a question. it would be safest if you ask her something like do you know when this (something happening at school such as assembly or something) happens. if she replies thats a good sign. if she doesnt wait a while and try again. if it works still wait a while before sitting down with her for a conversation about what happened between you to. try it out and tell me how it goes.

anymore questons. ive got all night.

[BobFM]

try sitting with her again. maybe not just showing up at her lunch table tomorrow but just walk over during lunch and ask her a question. it would be safest if you ask her something like do you know when this (something happening at school such as assembly or something) happens. if she replies thats a good sign. if she doesnt wait a while and try again. if it works still wait a while before sitting down with her for a conversation about what happened between you to. try it out and tell me how it goes.

anymore questons. ive got all night.

Alright, I'll try that tomorrow. I should get some sleep though, couple tests in the morning. x.x You've been very helpful, I'll let you know what happens tomorrow after school. :)

[music is my soul]

okay and good luck on those tests and that girl.

[BobFM]

okay and good luck on those tests and that girl.

Well I asked her when we had our Algebra test, and she rolled her eyes(again)and said, "Why don't you ask someone ELSE?" That's a reply, though, right? =_=

[music is my soul]

yeah a reply but not the one you would want.

sry man but you might need to give her a chance to start talking with you. the only advice i can give you is just ask her a question every once in a while.....not everyday just once a week or something just to let her know your still willing to talk to her.

[Natron01]

I know how ya feel i was bestfriends with a girl since kindergarden and we did everything togethere and i felt the same about her and now we dont really talk. i wish i knew what to tell ya but i dont

[BobFM]

yeah a reply but not the one you would want.

sry man but you might need to give her a chance to start talking with you. the only advice i can give you is just ask her a question every once in a while.....not everyday just once a week or something just to let her know your still willing to talk to her.

Alright, I'm gonna let this thread die so I'll PM you if I have any questions, if that's ok?

[music is my soul]

it fine with me.

anytime.