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wildfury
February 27th, 2011, 07:17 PM
Please give me some advice, I don't know what to do. Last year I had a boyfriend who was a complete bastard. He ended up raping a girl and framing and putting my friend in prison for trying to stand-up for her in school. He went to the police and said my friend beat him up with a baseball bat. Well when we were going out he convinced me to take a video of me taking off my clothes. I broke up with him and started ignoring him and he got pissed. Now, he told one of my friends who is actually the sister of my other friend that he is going to pass the video around school and then he's going to get me. I'm so scared. Not really of him raping me, I've had it happen to me before and I know how to deal with it but I'm afraid that if it happens that my friend will try to protect me and either get hurt or get sent to prison like her brother. Then there is the matter of what my current boyfriend will do. He's really protective of me and I'm afraid if something happened he would do some thing stupid. I don't really know what to do. I have no proof right now and before he graduated last year he was really popular. He is really dangerous. He has shoved my friend against a wall when no one was around and felt her up. He was the worst mistake in my life. I'm so scared right now. :cry:

Quahog
February 27th, 2011, 07:41 PM
Have you told any school staff? This is very serious. If he is going around making rape threats, and showing nude pictures of you, you need to speak up. Just because he is your ex boyfriend, that doesn't mean you should just let it slide. If you want the situation to get better, you need to tell someone. You shouldn't be afraid of him. You also shouldn't be afraid of what your current boyfriend will do. If you talk to him about it, I'm sure things will be fine. Even though he is protective of you, if you tell him the full story, he might be able to understand where you are coming from.

You need to inform the school staff about this sort of thing. It could get worse. I just don't want anything bad happening to you. Speak up about it. :)