Saying no to a BJ

[ePolice]

So I like this girl and she likes me and we are basically friends with benefits, and I know she wants to give me a Bj....but like how do I say no without sounding gay, weird, or like I have a small dick. The reason I am saying no is because I believe I do have a small dick and yea....I am 16.5 years old, 5 foot 5 inches, pretty skinny, small compared to 80% of the guys in my grade the and the grade below me. I am 5.1 inches long and when I put a clothing tape measure around it it is like 4.5 inches girth. And she has not seen a real guy's dick, just the big ones on the internet, I think she will be disappointed and surprised in a bad way.

[grimlip]

To tell you the truth your not that small. I'm pretty sure that's a little over average for your age. Even if it is small who would say no to a BJ? Not to sound like a pig. But if you are going to say no just say you don't want to go that far yet.

[JoshDude]

Your size is actually normal for your age, but if you really don't want a bj, just tell her you don't want to go that far in your relationship yet.

[kivaa]

ugh...friends with benefits....thats SUCH a bad concept

[Aηdy]

ugh...friends with benefits....thats SUCH a bad concept
Yeah i agree!

Just say no, its pretty simple. Your an ok size for your age.

[Zazu]

If she is a nice person then she wouldn't mind. And I really don't think she would think that you're 'gay' if you didn't want a blow job. Like with most issues here, the decision is yours.

[ePolice]

how is freinds with benefits a bad concept, this way im not obligated to buy her any presents and there is no comitment, we just like to makeout with eachother but right now i cant have a gf with all this SAT studying and money being spent on a car

[RowanVer.3.0]

In my opinion, when you have sex with someone.. Or even a friendly wrestle or just sleep/snuggle/what-have-you you kind of get connected to that person. Like, friends over the internet is kind of like a mental bond and 'friends with benefits' would be a physical bond. You kind of connect with the person when you have sex with them/make out, and it can hurt if you even lose that kind of relationship.

I think the chinese call what I was explaining "skinship" or something... Anyway, that's what I think.

[boy_lover88]

She's just a girl who wants to get into your pants because she obviously has a thing for you. Luckily, you've noticed otherwise I would've pointed it out.

As far as a BJ is concerned, she sounds desperate. Does she by any chance have any other male friends? Also how old are you two?

[QuestionsandAnswers]

She's just a girl who wants to get into your pants because she obviously has a thing for you. Luckily, you've noticed otherwise I would've pointed it out.

As far as a BJ is concerned, she sounds desperate. Does she by any chance have any other male friends? Also how old are you two?

He said he was 16 ½..

[boy_lover88]

I wanted to know both their ages and not just his, which is why I asked. >.<

But given his age, I'd say she is right around the brink of her hormones' exploding. Much like boys too, except at a younger age. Girls just tend to keep to themselves about this sort of thing. She wants you and that's all there is to it.

[xdeviancex]

ugh...friends with benefits....thats SUCH a bad concept

Yea its sad how corrupted the world is now, dedication and commitment is now just childs play in lets see how much we can twist it.