I'm starting to get scared :/

[LozziRAWR]

Okay so about 6 months ago, my friend who was 3 years older than me asked me to come to his flat.I was 12 at the time, he was 15.
It wasnt the first time we had hung out outside school, but that time he started touching me inappropriately. I asked him to stop but things escalated before he did.

Anyway its been 6 months since all that happened and I have begun to get over it, I've told people what happened, but now he keeps bringing it up whenever we talk on msn or facebook and saying he'd do it again if he got a chance, and that i enjoyed it even though i didnt.

What if it happens again??? I cant even go around school without being scared that he'll come up behind me..

[1_21Guns]

The main thing you can do is to probably tell an adult, that doesn't mean you have to press any charges against him or go to the police or anything, but if an adult knows and tells him to back off he probably won't.
Other than that you could just be blunt with him yourself, tell him that you didn't enjoy it and if he does again you'll go to the police etc.
Whatever you do don't let him intimidate you like that, or fear losing him as a friend, if he ignored you asking to stop, he's clearly not that much of a good friend in the first place. If he thinks you're under his thumb he'll try worse, just because he's older than you doesn't mean he can manipluate you and control you, you're better than that hun :hug3:

[LozziRAWR]

Thanks Natalie. I will tell some of the teachers at my school and ask them to put me in a different media group since we're on the school paper together. thanks hun :)

[1_21Guns]

You're welcome Lauren :)

[Love.Hate]

You dont have to be scared,
I think you need to tell someone. As Natalie said they wont nessecarly report him, they will just warn him. Tell him what he did was wrong and get him to leave you alone.
It means they you wont have to go around scared, because it wont happen again.
Just stay away from him.
Always here :hug:

[LozziRAWR]

thanks Fran, I'll try my best to stay well away from him :)

[smitty35]

Tell a parent or an adult. They will most likely make sure that creep doesn't disturb your peace anymore.