Help with moving on?

[Seeker94]

a year or two ago I had dated this girl and for some reason I just couldnt get her off my mind but we broke up and I thought it would be pretty easy to move on like it has always been well as easy as it gets but for some reason I was never able to move on. I asked her out again just before this school year had started or well somewhere around there and we had started dating again and that only lasted a week. For some reason I'm never able to get over her all I know is that when I think about her I almost always wanna well cut and crap but when I talk to her it all just feels ok and like I'm happy we are still friends. She knows how I feels so I'm glad it doesnt make it weird between us and all but still. After all that she has done to me ( her braking up with me wasnt the only thing that happened while I've been around her) I just want to find a way to move on any suggestions?

[Quahog]

What's wrong with being friends with her? Do you have to be her boyfriend, in order for her to help you? Maybe you don't have to leave her. You guys can still remain good friends. If she seems to be a good support system for you, I wouldn't want to leave her. But you guys don't have to be in a relationship. You can still be friends with an ex girlfriend. Just because you guys broke up relationship wise, doesn't mean you can't still keep a friendship with her. So, what is wrong with being good friends with her?

[Seeker94]

Nothing nothing at all seriously I really like being friends with her but I just wanted some ideas of how to move on like even though we are still pretty good friends and all I still day dream about dating her and stuff and I just wanted some idea on how to forget about her in that way

[Quahog]

Well, you need to set things straight. Look back at all the reasons as to why you and her really can't be together. Go over all the things which made you guys break up. Think about it. Every time you guys get back together, you just break up again. That doesn't sound like a good relationship. Things like that should be able to help you get over being in a relationship with her. You will find someone else. You just need to let her go. But just remain friends with her though.

[MariettaNate1995]

It's always hard to move on, it will hurt for a while and you may really want to get back together with her. But if you broke up for a good reason then you need to keep yourself away from her. If you think you can be friends, try that, but trust me it is harder to be friends after you've dated seriously than you think.