How do I fined the right guy?

[EmoBit]

So I'm asking a big question how do you know if someone is the right one for you? I really want to know because I have been with the wrong guy so many times it is not even funny. My last bf was the neat person to be with untill he dumped me. He hit me and called me crazy and said that I should be on meda well doush at least I'm not on pot because it is (a) bad for the baby that I have to carry all by my self. So how do I gined the one?:what:

[Great Perhaps]

there's not a lot you can do but keep trying. You will find the right guy eventually. that's what dating is all about, finding the right person for you. It will take more time for some than others, but chances are that it will take a long time. Just be yourself, and the right person will come along. ;)

[Quahog]

Get to know them a bit more. Take things slow. Usually you can be able to tell very quickly, as to whether or not the two of you connect with each other. Don't let your past experiences haunt you. You will find the right person, it just might take time. Just get to know your partner. If they seem like a nice person, start a relationship, see how it goes.

[mzhockey1696]

The biggest thing I would do if to take things slow just as vibrant mentioned. I am a guy, and I hate in when a girl wants to speed something up. Like if you have been talking to a guy for a couple weeks and he hasnt asked you out yet theres a reason for that. Just keep intrested in a guy when you find one and make him feel real close to you. Also try to make him feel like he is in control of the relationship.

[sam_rock1516]

let me answer that first question for you ''emobit'' you will feel it you will know if its the right person for you :)

[Socio]

I should be on meda well doush at least I'm not on pot because it is (a) bad for the baby that I have to carry all by my self. So how do I gined the one?:what:

Ummm what? lol

[Sage]

You're young. Don't worry about finding the "right" anything- enjoy yourself before it's too late to.

[Fruit_Tart.]

You're young. Don't worry about finding the "right" anything- enjoy yourself before it's too late to.
Agreed. Experiment and try to find what "right" really means to you. It can possibly change over time.

[Fact]

So I'm asking a big question how do you know if someone is the right one for you? I really want to know because I have been with the wrong guy so many times it is not even funny. My last bf was the neat person to be with untill he dumped me. He hit me and called me crazy and said that I should be on meda well doush at least I'm not on pot because it is (a) bad for the baby that I have to carry all by my self. So how do I gined the one?:what:

You're young. Don't worry about finding the "right" anything- enjoy yourself before it's too late to.

Agreed. Experiment and try to find what "right" really means to you. It can possibly change over time.

Experience. If you don't know what's bad, what's good and what's better than good, how can you make a 'right' decision? This is one of those things that often someone else just can't tell you what is 'right' - you need to experience that and make a decision for yourself.

As Sage said, you're young. Don't stress yourself over it, keep stuff like that to the back of your mind and just concentrate on enjoying life, grabbing opportunities and experience. That way when you face situations later in life, about what is 'right', whether that be in relationships, work, family, whatever, you can make informed choices.