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charliep
February 26th, 2011, 03:57 PM
I'm kinda scared because I am more sexually attracted to guys than girls. I know 50% of the answers will be "It's the hormones", but I'm still not 100% sure. Do I have to wait until I'm 18 to find out?

Kiss
February 26th, 2011, 04:00 PM
What exactly are you asking? Find out what? It's normal for teenagers to feel this way, it is just hormones. Unless later on you start developing different feeling torwards boys, like you could see yourself being in a relationship with one, then you will know you're bi sexual.

nick
February 26th, 2011, 04:05 PM
There is no age limit on when you can realise and come to terms with your sexuality. I have no idea how old you are and that affects and limits the advice I can give.

It could be just hormones and a phase that will pass, that's more likely if you are early in puberty. What you really need to think about is who you think you could fall in love with and have loving relationships, that's what determines sexuality.

I had some trouble accepting and working out my own sexuality, if you ever want to compare notes just let me know.

Malcolm Tucker
February 26th, 2011, 04:08 PM
Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality

Infidelitas
February 26th, 2011, 05:43 PM
Dont put a label on yourself until your 100% sure of it. Im sure alot of people go through what your going through. Like me for instance. it took me years to accept myself.

lengthy_brochure
February 26th, 2011, 09:22 PM
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Zazu
February 26th, 2011, 10:17 PM
There is no age limit on when you can realise and come to terms with your sexuality. I have no idea how old you are and that affects and limits the advice I can give.

It could be just hormones and a phase that will pass, that's more likely if you are early in puberty. What you really need to think about is who you think you could fall in love with and have loving relationships, that's what determines sexuality.

I had some trouble accepting and working out my own sexuality, if you ever want to compare notes just let me know.

This.

There's absolutely no reason as to why you should EVER feel scared about your sexuality and who you're attracted to. It's who you were born as, who you are and who you always will be, not something that you'll be able to change exactly. Remember as always that hormones can easily cloud true feelings during puberty, just sit back, relax and make the most of the journey :P

tyler007
February 27th, 2011, 12:02 AM
Just have fun and live in the moment for right now.... dont worry about lables.
Im almost 15 and i am still trying to figure it out too. but right now im just doing what i want and what feels right,

Wicked_Syn
February 27th, 2011, 12:04 AM
You'll know in your heart and what your mind tells you.

Sosaku
February 27th, 2011, 09:26 PM
I knew for sure at the age of 16 that i am gay, but when i was 8 i knew i was at least bi-sexual. Hormones have alot to do with it, and i'd say "Don't think" but people take that as just act, and that can be wrong, so just "feel" Your feelings know what they want, they know whats best, sometimes. You don't have to have a label. it just gives idiots a name to call people...

sieg
February 27th, 2011, 10:07 PM
could be hormones, but if its gone on for more than 3 years i would consider coming to terms with who you like

Craig1995
February 28th, 2011, 05:38 PM
I knew for defo when I was 12. You'll realise for sure if u r or aren't soon enough.

chris_carter8
March 1st, 2011, 12:57 AM
you dont always have to wait. sometimes you just know.
send me a message if u need someone for support.

kylek97
March 1st, 2011, 12:52 PM
i wouldnt worry bout it... just wait n c wut happens....