First Relationship and confused.

[ponygon101]

I asked out my first girl on Wednesday and she said "yes". I feel unsure and a little obligated to hang out with her. Any ideas why? Also, I'm new to all this so some tips on how to be a boyfriend would be really helpful. Thanks

[jttaylor92]

Well since you guys are boyfriend and girlfriend, then it's assumed you'd hang out more, but if you want to take things slowly, go ahead!

[Sage]

Take a chill pill and don't stress yourself over it. Calling one other boyfriend and girlfriend doesn't actually change anything and you shouldn't worry about losing her because you aren't available 25/7. Besides- It's your first relationship. It won't last.

[nick]

Just be yourself, if she said "yes" then she likes you just the way you are so dont try to hard to impress.

[Quahog]

Why are you feeling unsure? If you like this girl, this should be an amazing opportunity for you. Just calm yourself down. Enjoy yourself. It's nothing to get worked up about. Be yourself, go slow, just have fun, and enjoy the moment.

[mzhockey1696]

Just hang out with her on the weekends and talk to her during the week. Video chatting, txting, or calling. I wouldnt talk or hang out with her a lot when you just start dating because if you end up later on not talking to her as much girls feel like you dont like them anymore.

[music is my soul]

all i can say that hasnt already been said is always be there for her. girls love a guy whos there when they need some one.

[itsthat0n3kid]

take her to the park or beach. show her your romantic side(if there is one) but just be yourself. that is the biggest thing.

[StrongSilent]

Biggest thing you have to realize is that relationships at this age never last. The only purpose they have is to prepare you for relationships later in life.

Keep this in mind, and take the breakup with a grain of salt.