girl problem : i need help

[music is my soul]

theres this girl i met overthe summer. she is the first girl i have truly fallen in love with. the trouble is she lives a thousand miles away and im not even sure if she likes me.

ive tried to get over her and i dont hurt as bad when i think about her but it still hurts.

she has my cell phone number and i was going to get hers but she said hers had gotten stolen. so no calls in seven fucking months.

the best part is that thats not it. i missed the perfect chance to kiss her. the truth is i would do anything to have that night back and change it but i cant.

i need some help/advice on letting go.

[Great Perhaps]

There aren't many things harder than just letting go, but sometimes it's the best thing to do. You're 13, and chances are that it wouldn't have worked out anyways. I know it's hard, I've had to let go of people I love, and it is one of the most emotionally stressful things you can do. But you will move on, you will find someone else, and you will be ok. You've got plenty of time, enjoy it.

[mzhockey1696]

if you find other people you will eaisly forget about it. Just try to find some other girls and you wont remeber she exsited.

[music is my soul]

trust me guys ive tried.

[Sage]

the best part is that thats not it. i missed the perfect chance to kiss her. the truth is i would do anything to have that night back and change it but i cant.

i need some help/advice on letting go.

Well, kiddo, it's tough luck that you missed such an opportunity- we all miss opportunities, but the way you handle things from now on is up to you. You can sulk and moan and pour your heart out all you like, but dwelling in regret and the past is the never the way to success. You're thirteen- you haven't even met half the people who'll play a part in your life. You've middle school, highschool, college years, and decades beyond that to come across someone else, and I guarantee you that so long as you make an effort to put yourself out there you will.

Next time you're with a girl in such a way, think back to this, and don't make the same mistake twice. Think of it as a learning experience.

[itsthat0n3kid]

it may not be a choice of losing her or not. try skype or another online webcam chat! :D