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Syvelocin
February 24th, 2011, 03:06 PM
Well, main reason I'm posting here is that I feel like I'm straying. I used to be pretty 50-50 as far as attraction to guys and girls. I feel like I'm gradually being much more attracted to girls. That, or I'm just letting myself be like that more than usual. I know I can't exactly just become that way. I'm still emotionally attracted to guys, but they're becoming even less interesting. I mean, I only find one guy in the world attractive. I thought it was a bigger number before... but then I have a whole list of girls I find attractive, physically, emotionally, the whole package.

Which is, irritatingly, a problem. How I feel toward my husband hasn't changed though.

But when I was younger, I decided I wouldn't marry a guy. I wanted to marry a girl. I still kinda do.

I like a friend of mine. And for the first time, she likes me back.

I don't know why I'm saying any of this. It's not like I'm going to act on any of this. This is just a portion of my day-to-day thoughts.

I think I'm just... worried.

Infidelitas
February 25th, 2011, 05:33 AM
Dont be worried, like most of the people on here who are bisexual, most of them arent exactly 50 50 between liking girls and guys. Im glad you still have feelings and interests to your husband. As to the liking and being attracted to girls, thats what being bi is about.
Before I came out, I was intent on liking girls, when truly I was 100% attracted to boys. Just go with the flow and have your crushes, thats what keeps me going.

Donkey
February 25th, 2011, 05:35 AM
It's bound to happen as those mad hormones from puberty calm down. If I were you, I'd let it takes its time and see how you feel a few years down the line; just don't do anything too rash while you're waiting. I don't know if there's a lot more you can do, but there's nothing to be worried about :)