Everyone hates me

[CantLiveWithoutYou]

First thread didn't work got one reply in like 2 months, I have a feeling the title had to do with it and you can't edit the title...

Everyone hates me. I be nice to them, I help them when they need it, I even waste my money on people that are my 'friends' and they all fucking hate me. It's starting to piss me off. I know it's just this school too, because I have one person that used to be my friend(more detail later in the next few paragraphs). He has gone to at least 5 different schools now, and he's had no problem making great friends everywhere except this school, everyone was always making fun of him and just being assholes in general, he's a very like-able person but everyone hates him here, same with me-the being hated not the hating him, I loved him <3-. I swear they put lead in the water here or something because everyone just wants to kill everyone and they all act stupid like they have lead poisoning. It's a great school test score-wise but they have, IMO, horrible teaching methods and they're shit at keeping teens in-line.

I've talked to my parents about trying a different school but they're convinced that I'd have better grades if I stay here-yeah right I have 2 Fs, a C+ and a B-- I show them other schools nearby with better test scores, but they come up with some stupid-ass reason to not let me go. They tried something in the first half of my 4th grade year but they moved me back to this shitty school after a few months. Had one GREAT friend(the one in the first paragraph) that always had something funny to say or at the very least something interesting to talk about, but he moved. After a couple weeks of talking to him after he moved he stopped texting me, calling me, etc... He's a great person and I'm sure he has a good reason to not talk to me.. Phone dead, deactivated, parents took it, etc.

I don't know what to do anymore. I'd have better grades if I had more friends, id est, if I went to a different school my grades would be better because I'd make more friends and there'd be a lot less stress in my life. I told my parents I promise that I'd get better grades, I've given them the reason, and the keep me in this fucking penitentiary.

OK maybe I exaggerated EVERYONE, but I can only think of 2 people that wouldn't be happier if I were dead.

[Donkey]

Hi bud. Often people get the impression people like them less than they do, in reality often people tend to be indifferent and it takes you to work on your relationship with them. Life can feel shit, and sometimes everyone irrationally feels as if they don't measure up and everyone hates them.

I hear high school is pretty shit over in the US, and you have to join clubs, teams or groups or whatever in order to be one of the populars. Essentially, you could pay no attention to the social hierarchy because you're a smart guy and you shouldn't need to or you could get more enjoyment from using your intelligence to naturally incorporate developed sociology or psychology skills into every day life in order make friends. It sounds odd, but actually it's very simple - just be nice to people, know who to hang out with and be a good friend.

Add people on Facebook, MSN, whatever, get talking to them. Just do something that works with you to help - if you can't get out of the school you're at, you'll just have to make the best of it. You'll learn a lot on the way.

Good luck man.

[CantLiveWithoutYou]

I try to talk to people and they hate me.. also like I said my friend had a problem here too but everywhere else in the world loves him so it IS just the people here.

[Donkey]

Could it be a 'if you can't beat them, join them' thing? What differentiates you and your friend from the rest of the social community? If you can identify that, perhaps you'll become closer to becoming in touch with them.

Furthermore, when you try to talk to people what exactly is it that makes you think that they hate you? Do they literally say so or are you just picking it up by the way they act, in which case it might just be how people act when they don't know someone that you are perceiving as them disliking you.

[CantLiveWithoutYou]

There's things that are unchangeable about me like my hair color(yes people make fun of me for that, my parents called and told the school kids are being fucks but they didn't do shit), me being smart(they're all pretty god damn retarded)... It's not changeable so I just need advice on either A. How to get emancipated when I'm 14 so I can go to a fucking different school or B. Piss everyone off so much they hate me more and I get beat up and my parents have to let me switch schools or CPS takes me away.

And they literally say "I hate you" and mean it so..

[Donkey]

I know the feeling of being surrounded by people who seem mentally inferior. If you really think that being moved schools is your best bet and won't negatively effect your education in any way, you need to sit down with your parents and seriously discuss what is happening - not just the quality of education in terms of test scores, but your social position and why you feel a move is such an important action for your mental well being.

A few things to consider... you could probably ask the council if your parents refuse to see where you stand, but I think in the end it's their call. Don't get beaten up or do something stupid to get expelled as you'll either damage yourself, get a criminal record and/or end up at a shittier behaviour-type school. Your best bet for now is trying to be real diplomatic with your parents and planning exactly what you'll say, try to attract some sympathy from them.

[danmanlott]

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[CantLiveWithoutYou]

The only friend I have that wouldn't talk to me for the longest time texted me today and we had a long convo, he had a good reason to not talk to me(it wasn't me or him, it was a situation he was in, phone not working and stuff). He still stands by the fact that every school except the one I'm at is really nice to him. When I talk to my parents about switching schools they avoid the conversation and talk about something else, even when I say "Stop trying to avoid talking about it" they just refuse to say anything and are keeping me here. Inner-city middle school without the inner-city part.

Also I'm going to call the cops because my dad physically abuses me so he'll be gone for awhile, it'll just be my mom.

[Infidelitas]

:)Us VTers dont hate you, we <3 you. please be happy

[aaron4455]

ya wat kingcharlie said

[oopsy's]

dont let what some malicious people are saying bother you i know its hard but try not to let them know that your bothered or reacting else they'll keep doing it until it just gets worse and worse. and everyone here is really nice so if you need to talk we'll listen.:)

[CantLiveWithoutYou]

Telling me to ignore the people isn't going to help.

[CantLiveWithoutYou]

I'm fucking giving up, I don't care anymore. There's nothing to live for anymore I'm just going to go smoke weed until I pass out and not do any homework ever again or try in school. I don't care as long as I get to sit in the back corner as high as I possibly can be every day. I don't care if I get caught, if I go to jail, there's no point in trying anymore.

[MyRedHeadWorld]

You say everyone hates you, and Im on the same page you are with that, I got alot of mates, but I know most of them hate me and are backstabbing me and shit, and Im actully finding out that people I dont know what to punch me apparently...and tbh, I laughed XD Ive been in such a bad place recintly, and you say no one cares and that, you have all these people commenting, giving advice telling you to cheer up! You may not know them but still!! The people in your school, Tbh, just tell em to shove it! Im sure theres someone there whos nice, you just gotta look hard for them
You say egnoreing em wont help, It will and it wont, If youve got the guts, tell the people being assholes to fuck off! The whole not doing well in school is probably lack of focus, because you sound very focused on all the bitches :/ Your letting the rest of the world win! and Im sure you dont wanna give the assholes the pleasure of knowing they broke you down...

I dunno if that helped, maybe your reading it thinking "Oh my god, Shut up you stupied bitch" But Merr, thats cool, just thought Ide help :)
Im going through some shit + Ive been through it all before ¬¬ if you ever need someone to talk to, Im here :D x

[CantLiveWithoutYou]

I'm just trying to forget the shit at this school and talking to the one good friend that I have. It's his birthday this weekend, I have no idea how much money I should give him on paypal. I'm not gonna give him $5 and be like "here dude go buy a condom!" it'd be at least $20!


Edit:
Have to add that this is the friend that moved so I can't personally give him anything or paper money so...

[CantLiveWithoutYou]

Well now I lost that friend, he stopped texting me and when I try to talk to him on facebook he just goes offline.
Back to 0 friends. FUCK MY LIFE. I TRY TO LOVE PEOPLE, I be nice to them, I do everything I can to make them happy and they all fucking hate me. There's no point in living anymore, getting really close to killing myself.
I don't want to live anymore if I don't have a reason to, and right now I don't.