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spw184
February 23rd, 2011, 07:13 PM
:confused:Is calling yourself "bi" just a reson so a gay guy can hold a girls hand and feel normal? Ive noticed that im alot more comfterable dating and having sex with guys than girls and im starting to question my sexuality.

Infidelitas
February 23rd, 2011, 08:05 PM
bisexuality is a sexuality. it mean that you are emotionally, physically and sexualy attracted to both sexes. alot of gay people say that they are strait to make themselves apear normal. your myth is mostly false, but in some cased, its true also

tyler007
February 23rd, 2011, 08:10 PM
Haha that was one of the best lines the other night.
But there is nothing wrong with being BI for right now, and if you feel more comfortable dating and haveing sex with guys then thats the way you should go.

Glitter
February 23rd, 2011, 08:11 PM
This would be a myth. Bisexuals are attracted emotionally, and physically to both genders. However, I've known gay people to say that they are straight or bi just to cover up being gay.

Mario T
February 23rd, 2011, 08:41 PM
Yup its a myth

sdude
February 23rd, 2011, 08:59 PM
I think the labels are the myth....sure some people are very much directed at one sex or another, but I think there is a majority of us that have some "real" attractions to both, we just end up with our partner in love that takes us a direction we pretty much stay with. I wish the labels just didn't matter anymore...they shouldn't!

nick
February 23rd, 2011, 09:11 PM
I think the labels are the myth....sure some people are very much directed at one sex or another, but I think there is a majority of us that have some "real" attractions to both, we just end up with our partner in love that takes us a direction we pretty much stay with. I wish the labels just didn't matter anymore...they shouldn't!
Great answer Sean.

The labels "straight/bi/gay" suggest its a clear cut 3-point scale when really it isnt, its far more complex than that. Most people are at some in between point, whether they admit it or not, and for many people it can change, its not always constant.

Dont let it bother you, dont feel the need to conform or fit into someone else's categories, just be yourself.

Matt Matoran
February 23rd, 2011, 10:23 PM
Yep I think that's a myth... And did you just get that from Glee? (the tv show)

mr.sexy_bomb
February 23rd, 2011, 10:27 PM
Hmm I used to say I was bi, but then I realized that I really will only be with guys so I don't know