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FBNIL97
February 23rd, 2011, 07:44 AM
Hey
I asked this girl out a few days ago, and she rejected me. but i still fancy her. anyone got any advice for moving on?
Fact
February 23rd, 2011, 07:52 AM
Hey
I asked this girl out a few days ago, and she rejected me. but i still fancy her. anyone got any advice for moving on?
It hurts to be rejected, but you have to accept that it's not necessarily your fault if someone doesn't want to be with you. You have to keep an open mind and be realistic - there are going to be other girls you fancy that will want to go out with you, you're still young and therefore have all the time in the world to mess around with girls.
As for moving on, just try to forget about her. *insert Chinese proverb here*. You'll be fine and will have healed in no time.
MariettaNate1995
February 24th, 2011, 10:30 AM
Keep an open mind. From my personal experience, you're gonna ask out 10 girls and get 3 dates. As you get older, you'll get more and more dates. Just hang in there and keep asking different girls.
Eagle63
February 24th, 2011, 07:20 PM
Best thing to do is just shake it off. Whenever someone rejects me and is mean about it, I just think to myself "If ur that mean, you wouldn't be good for me anyway." Hope that perspective helps! Good luck in the future.
Kitty Purry
February 24th, 2011, 10:31 PM
All you can do is get over her:P, it may take some time, but theres PLENTY of fish in the sea! xDD
joey7071
February 25th, 2011, 12:28 PM
Hey
I asked this girl out a few days ago, and she rejected me. but i still fancy her. anyone got any advice for moving on?
We've all been there mate lol try to just move on, the right girl will come along, perhaps you could try hanging out with your friends abit more as a sort of diistraction and eventually the feelings will go away.
FBNIL97
February 25th, 2011, 09:15 PM
Thanks for the replies people :)
chris_carter8
March 2nd, 2011, 12:15 AM
just find someone else. or chase her. but dont get too obsessive. you might scare her off. good luck
SuperSuraj
March 2nd, 2011, 12:58 AM
Being rejected is always going to be tough, you'll eventually get over the rejection but you may not get over her, odds are you'll get tired of waiting and you'll find someone else who you like and who likes you back... good luck :)
jack straw
March 4th, 2011, 04:44 PM
Its gonna take some time, but youll get over her. Is this the first girl you've asked out? Think its actually best you get at least one rejection under your belt before you actually go out with somebody. Sorry to say it, wish it wasnt true, but the first girl you date probably wont be the one you marry and it kind of prepares you for the eventual end of the relationship, its not as stunning of a suprise and as deep of a heartache. You'll find somebody, it will work out. Your only 13, I didnt have my first girlfriend till I was almost 15, and I have 19 year old friends who still havent had their first kiss yet so you got plenty of time kid ;)
Ashton M
March 12th, 2011, 12:40 AM
good luck just gota try to move on
StrongSilent
March 14th, 2011, 07:39 PM
just find someone else. or chase her. but dont get too obsessive. you might scare her off. good luck
Uh no. If you're trying to get over her then avoid her like the plague. Don't chase her at any cost.
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