I'm not gay i swear!

[richboypoor]

So I've been trying to build up the courage to make this thread and I think I'm ready.

I like girls, i have a cruch on a few girls and i like being straight. But recently i've kinda been experimetning with my bro, he's 12 so he's not exactly that much younger and i just love doing stuff.
He's so fit and manly, he looks way older than he is, way older than me and i can't stop thinking about when we do stuff together. Does this mean I'm gay?

The really annoying thing is how he talks about girls from school and people he fancies but i just want him to want to do stuff with me not anyone else.

Is this nromal? To want to experiment with ur brother? I'm not gay am i?

[sdude]

I think you might be...you are crushing on your brother and you need to find another attraction. His body may be more developed, but he is only 12 and u 13, so find some other friends to play with dude...it's just goin to mess with your head later....

[ikhasgkfjh]

You are straight but curious. It is perfectly normal to experiment. There are people that experiment with family members, but it tends to make things awkward amongst you two. I suggest finding a friend or someone else. The only way you could be gay or bi is if you see yourself having a relationship with a guy like you would have with a girl. Hope I helped. If you need anymore advice or help feel free to contact me via VT or one of my IM services. Good luck my friend. :)

[Hockeyplayer1]

Your attraction to your bro almost sounds unhealthy. I agree that we all are a lil to curious at times due to hormones but you seem to be more emotionally attracted then just a hormonal experiment thing. I think you need to sit and think some about your feelings and what you really want for yourself. Either way you know that a tru relationship with your brother isnt goin to be a good deal. Hit me up if you want with IM or email man.

[Donkey]

I'M NOT IN DENIAL, I SWEAR!

AND I'M NOT DOING THAT INCEST STUFF, I SWEAR!

I'M NOT GAY, I SWEAR!

Come on man, between you and your brother is a bit creepy. Your ages aren't much of an issue as you're pretty close but the fact that you're "doing stuff" is more worrying than the natural same-sex curiosity that occurs in earlier puberty due to the new rush of hormones. Find someone who isn't related to you to experiment with.

[Starlight Blaze]

well it sounds like you want a relationship with him...
find another guy, see if you feel the same way.
it could just be curiosity, or you're gay/bi
the only important thing here is that its with your brother, and thats major incest which is frowned upon by the majority of people. like I said find someone else and see if its the same.
and if you turn out to be gay/bi then thats what you are, and "sadly", you're gonna have to deal with it
and if you keep going incest, be ready to face a LOT of judgement.

if you want more help, or wanna rant, just message me, I've been through a lot of this stuff

[Cryofthewolf]

I think you are way too young to be labeling yourself as gay/straight/bisexual/whatever. You will know as you get older who you fancy, and what you want to label yourself as. Heck, you might not want to label yourself at all. I don't like to label myself really. Haha it seems my sexuality changes everyday. :P

As for experimenting with your brother, I personally don't like it. Who knows where it might lead, and how it will affect your relationship in the future? I have never done anything with my brother, nor do I want to, so I would take council from somebody who has/does experiment with family.

I'm not saying that you are strange or abnormal in any way. The teenage years are a rough time, and strange things can happen from 13-18. Just relax, and realize that you are normal. Like I said, I don't like the idea of messing around with a sibling, but it's not my call to say whether or not it is completely right or wrong. Know that I am not judging you, however. I understand how confusing being a young teenager can be. =-)

[kylek97]

doesnt mean ur gay... could be just experimenting..... i think lots of guys do it

[sieg]

forget the labels, they just become insults in the end. its normal to be curious, incest is frowned upon by the majority of people but idrc and if i had to make a judgement i would say your either bisexual or homosexual, seeing as you mentioned you had crushes on girls aswell as your brother.

[Infidelitas]

It doesnt matter whether your gay or not. Boys your age are curious. They try to find themselves in the world of love.
One of the worst things to do would be to do anything with your brother, or any other member of your family. its 100% up to you what you do. In 20 years, you may still remember what you did with him, and regret it. Explore with friends if you have to, but not with your brother.
Hope this helps

[spw184]

My only worry is that this is incest

[tyler007]

I dont think it makes you gay at all. All or most guys are curious at some point in there lives and act on it esp in puberty when our hormones are all running crazy.

I think that you are doing it with your brother because he is there and it feels good, and hes ok with it. Hes your brother and you love him, so jerking off with him is fun.
But i think that you should find a friend to jerk off and experiment with.

If you do find a friend to jerk off and play with that still does not make you gay yet, its just experimenting.

[richboypoor]

Thanks for all the help guys, I know i probably need to fins someone else other than my brother to do this stuff with but how do i kinda start it off?
How am i supposed to just get a friend to do it? I don't really get it

[Mario T]

find other dudes to do it with,,,

[mr.sexy_bomb]

I think you should be doing this with someone else, I mean it's your brother

[Velasquez970]

Hey u know I don't think at age 13 u really sure why u like and hey ur curious an so is ur bro and it depends on the stuff u do together some might be way ring but some are normal u know