View Full Version : I told this guy on FB that i was bi....
jack_dawkins
February 22nd, 2011, 08:31 PM
Hey so I have been FB messaging with this guy for a few months and then started texting him too, over the weekend I told him that I was bi and thought he was cute… and it was really hard to do, even though I know I will never meet him. But then he shocked me and told that he was too, and has been looking for hint that I was too.
Has anyone else done this? And Why is it so hard to do?
mr.sexy_bomb
February 22nd, 2011, 08:35 PM
Hmm I think that maybe you are just not used to telling people but the more you do it, the easier it will be for you to tell people about your sexuality
OneComputerGeek
February 22nd, 2011, 09:25 PM
It gets easier as you do it more and become more comfortable with it.
TravM
February 22nd, 2011, 09:28 PM
Hey so I have been FB messaging with this guy for a few months and then started texting him too, over the weekend I told him that I was bi and thought he was cute… and it was really hard to do, even though I know I will never meet him. But then he shocked me and told that he was too, and has been looking for hint that I was too.
Has anyone else done this? And Why is it so hard to do?
Yeah man, you're probably just a little tense about it right now. I first came out online life in May, irl sister by November, parents by January, and am practically ready to live freely by tomorrow (still have to tell a few people, just don't know when) :P It'll come easier with time and you'll get used to the idea, certainly if you're okay with being bi.
Fruit_Tart.
February 22nd, 2011, 10:30 PM
I've come put to people I trust and they completely accept me. Once you start being more comfortable with the people around you, you become more willing to come out. It'll be hard for the first few, but you'll start getting the hang of it. ;) jus know that everyone isn't as accepting... Good luck with all this. ^_^
sieg
February 23rd, 2011, 04:43 PM
its hard because as humans we fear rejection, it gets easier though.
Infidelitas
February 23rd, 2011, 06:48 PM
If I have, they havnt told me. your so lucky that that happened. Im struggling to find another gay guy in my city to be attracted to.
jack_dawkins
February 23rd, 2011, 07:34 PM
Hey everyone, thanks for your thought. I guess im still just coming to terms with being bi And I want to tell more people but i am just doing it slowly. One at a time.
So i hope it does get easier, as i get more comfortable with it.
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