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[Jennifer's Ashes]

So over the last few months, I kind of had this boyfriend. I live overseas temporarily, and he was an old friend who moved one town over but we got back in touch. I used to text him every night, and we definitely loved each other. But, due to sensitivities which I don't care to go into and which were neither of our faults, I had to get rid of my facebook and stop talking to him for around 2 or 3 months. Recently I managed to log on one last time and I saw lots of messages from him saying things like "baby, we haven't talked in a while, are you mad at me?" and stuff that just melted my heart. So I responded to one of them and told him that we couldn't really be together but when I got home we could definitely be in a relationship. He seemed dissaoppointed and I tried to tell him how it wasnt my fault or his and he didn't reply. His birthday is in may so im definetly sending him a letter for that but I want to male sure he'll have me, when i get home. Do you think he still loves me? Talk to me straight, I want to know the truth.

[KaelKaos]

It's hard to know, Genevieve. You said he seemed disappointed, which still most likely means he loves you and he wants to be with you. Now if he got angry it'd be a different story. I think you need to let him know that time apart is needed, and you won't be gone forever.

[Quahog]

That is the thing with long distance relationships. You have to work around them somehow. You have to deal with the fact that the both of you are not near each other, you can't kiss, or cuddle, or see each other face to face, which what really makes a relationship good. You can only talk to each other on the telephone, or by email, or sending each other letters, like you said you were going to do. You have to have hope that the relationship is still fresh. If you still love him, then he probably still loves you. Don't always think of the negatives, "What if he doesn't like me anymore, what if it is over." Because it might not be.

Just try to keep in touch with him the best you can. Just remind him that just because you are miles away, it doesn't mean the relationship is going in the wrong direction. I don't think he wants to break up with you, I just think that he is just impatient right now. He wants to be with you, but doesn't understand that really isn't physically possible. Send him the letter for his birthday, try to talk to him when you are available, and I'm sure you will be fine. I don't think he is going to call it off.

[Jennifer's Ashes]

See, that's just it. I had to call it off so I can't talk to him anymore,and therefore I'm thinking that his birthday is my last chance.

[Quahog]

Redeem yourself. If you still want to be with him, show him that you still love him. Send him the card, and cross your fingers, hopefully things work out. If you truly love him, you have to be patient. He has to be patient as well. So complicated dealing with relationships when the two of you are so far away. Get back into touch with him. The birthday card is good, but check and see how he is doing. If you love him, don't break up with him.