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Nickrules094
December 12th, 2006, 10:51 PM
I like my best friend. I'm Bi And He doesn't know... At least I think... Well he might be bi or gay or str8 IDK He wont tell me! But anyways I dont know if I can trust him or tell him I'm Bi. WHAT SHOULD I Do??/
NICK
Dante
December 13th, 2006, 12:38 AM
well has ur bestfriend led u to believe that he might be gay or bi? Have you ever talked to him about gay people? does he not care? is he completly against homosexuality?
mRojas2000
December 13th, 2006, 07:00 AM
And being bi isn't as bad as some people consider being gay... they are at least gonna tell you that you like girls :P I think you should tell him! I don't think he's gonna really care! ONLY if he's something like all-against-homosexuallity kind of person
boy_lover88
December 13th, 2006, 05:49 PM
I once had a friend who despised gays, but he grew to like me anyway. Some people can be forgiving. I wish you the best of luck. When I opened up to my friend... I got a nice surprise ^_0.
grimlip
December 13th, 2006, 10:17 PM
Well if it is your best friend you should be able to trust him. See I ended up liking a guy that is kinda my friend and at first he freaked but then came around and was fine with it. But he wasn't even really my friend so if it is your best friend he should be fine and if he's not he's not truly your friend.
JoshDude
December 13th, 2006, 10:28 PM
Because this guy is your best friend, he will definetly understand that you are bi sexual. If you tell him, he might even come out and tell you that he is also bi sexual.
R&b_Boy
December 15th, 2006, 09:11 PM
just sit down wit him and tell him about ur situation n stuff..if he's like " I am To" i guess yall mov eon from there but if he's like ..oh and keeps his distnace..he's str8 and prolly not a best friend..but i may be qrong..but i still think u shud explain ur feelings to him
Aηdy
December 16th, 2006, 07:56 AM
If its your best friend you should be able to tell him and trust him not to tell anybody else if you dont want him to, and if you tell him he might tell you.
Zazu
December 16th, 2006, 09:42 AM
Like Andy said, it's really your decision on wether or not you tell him. If you know him well and trust him then tell him, if you're worried that he will go around telling people about it then don't. It's your decision.
megamikey59
December 16th, 2006, 09:45 AM
Easier said then done. Tell us when you told him, kk?
Nickrules094
December 17th, 2006, 05:30 AM
I didn't tell him yet. Its almost Christmas. And I know I'm bi now but.... I like a girl in NY and I like my best friend. If you tell my best friend something he blurts it out!!!! T.T So I don't know what to do. Should I tell him I'm bi or not?
Melchi0r
December 17th, 2006, 08:47 AM
Tell him. If he isn't telling you if he's bi, gay, or straight, he might be one of the other two besides straight and is too uncomfortable to talk about it. If you "come out" first then he'd be more comfortable to discuss his sexuality with you.
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