little... um BIG crisis

[lxl]

okay i am just sooooo confused in every part of my life but...
i was in huge denial about my orientation...
but now i am starting to accept that i am gay
but no one in my life knows that i am
i really hate rejection and i dont want to lose friends
my best friend is against the whole homosexual stuff
and i dunno who to tell this to
major break-down here help!

[Glasgow]

Ugh. I hate homophobes, In my opinion...Just tell your bestfriend. If he is really your bestfriend then he wouldnt ditch you becuase your gay. And also, are you totally sure that your gay? What happened in your life that you were able to determine this?

[lxl]

kay whatever homophobic means... um
well i fell in love with a guy one time
and another guy today... and the fact that guys turn me on?
yeah but.. my best friend is a girl so...

[Unsure16]

You could very well just be curious right now. How old are you? Maybe it is just a stage. Many guys go through a stage where they are attracted to other guys and would like to "do stuff". Just don't make a choice quite yet. And about your friend, a lot of people think that it is wrong. I know that it isn't the best choice, but i am willing to except people. I am straight, but still struggle with the fact that sometimes i am attracted to other males. But i like girls more than guys, but i'm still curious. Just really think things over before you make a the final choice.

[JoshDude]

Your best friend will totally understand. Don't worry. Just tell her.

[Just...Will]

Homophobic means literally "Unconditional fear of gays." It's come to mean, however, "one who is against gays in all forms."

[lxl]

okay im goin to try to tell my friend...
thanks for the advices

[megamikey59]

Wow, you're seriously telling your friend? You're way better than me. I'm bisexual. I wouldn't know how to even bring up the whole bisexual/homosexual thing up. How can you do that?

[boy_lover88]

I didn't think girls were big on being homophobic. Lots of straight guys are... but they have a reason to be homophobic ^^. Most straight guys would say they don't mind gays, as long as they don't hit on them. Girls don't have a reason to be. Maybe she had a moment where her boyfriend reverted to a cute boy and prefered him over her.

[lxl]

well mikey i um really havent told anyone yet...
um yeah im just stressin out here about it
grrr

[megamikey59]

Lol me too. I think my best friend is like super hot.... but i don't know how to tell him that i'm bisexual

[football]

id agree wit the whole waitin thing i mean im interested in doin things with guys but i love girls i jus would wait a tiny bit.

[grimlip]

Well I'm bisexual and at first I was afraid to tell my best friend but I eventually told her and she was cool with it, she thinks it is so cute when I have a crush on a boy. But maybe it's also a factor that she's bi too. But if this girl really is your bestfriend she won't care. Homophobes just need to realize, we're here, we're queer, and we aren't going anywhere.