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RaineBow
February 21st, 2011, 10:25 PM
I'm going back to school tomorrow, and I can already predict something will happen causing me to want to cut. I don't want to cut any more, but I can't help it. Is there something I could substitute it with? Something I can do at school if I absolutely need it? Because I remember the last time I was having a bad day at school, I almost hyperventilated because I couldn't cut.

Bath
February 21st, 2011, 11:24 PM
Rubberbands to snap on your wrist.
Draw out your feelings. Or write something, looks like you're taking notes.
Go to the bathroom, wash your hands, it's a distraction for a bit.

FullyAlive
February 22nd, 2011, 06:33 AM
I know how you feel last time I couldn't cut in school I had a panic attack so your not alone :)

I would do as suggested rubber bands, write. Or sometimes I'll just leave the lesson and wander around the school for a bit until I've calmed down, it can be distracting. As a last resort instead of cutting I'll scratch with my nails it hurts a little and can lessen the urge. But obviously that's still self harm I suppose so try the other things first.

Good luck hope it goes ok :)

Fiction
February 22nd, 2011, 08:17 AM
Take a notebook with you. When you want to cut just write everything that you are feeling. Just every thoughts the comes into your head, write it down. I did that the first day back at school after being in hospital and it seriously helped so much.

UnknownError
February 22nd, 2011, 12:35 PM
Rubber bands for snapping on your arms. Although its still moderate SH, its better than cutting.
Or do what Kathy said, with the notebook. Write down your feelings.

RaineBow
February 22nd, 2011, 03:14 PM
Thanks, its helping some what. I forgot to bring a rubberband, so I just scratched my arm with my nails, I feel a little better though, but I still want to cut.

FullyAlive
February 22nd, 2011, 03:32 PM
I'm glad you only scratched and didn't cut, I'm afraid it's going to take a while before the want to cut goes away. You just have to keep fighting those urges. xxxxxx
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