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[Glasgow]

I swore to myself i'd never post again in here. But i just feel stupid

Gah. I dont want my mom to read this, so hopefully she will keep her promise and not go on here..

But, a different girl. Shes different, Sandra. Its complicated about how i feel about her, we've never really talked in real life, we've sat beside eachtoehr, but she was way too shy to talk. ANyways, we talk ALOT on msn, like all the time. And i dunno, after a while i grew to like her, she isnt the best looking girl, but she isnt ugly at all. She is, well.. extremely sarcastic, and thats the downpoint of MSN. You dont know when shes being serious or being silly. And i dunno, i jsut cant seem to get her off my mind, i mention her alot at school, but i try and not make it so obvious. She goes to a different school, not too far from my own.Anyways, to my point.. Girls just ruin your life, you grow so attached to a certain girl, and then when she just gets sick of you, it really bothers you. Probably from the lack of contact i have with her, she is gettin sick of me. She used to be all "I LOVE YOU", but one night i scared her. I sorta spazzed, things are still sorta settling. Sometimes i feel like i wanna see her, but when she asks if i wanna "walk" or something, i refuse. I just forgot everything i just said, but she just logged off msn. and im sorta relived yet sad in a way. I suppose i do like her, but im afraid to tell her. I sorta feel like just letting go slowly, its really really really really confusing. Why is life so fucking complicated.

Anyways, im not sure what i wanted in return from this thread, maybe just some words of comfort from somebody. because this really bothers me.

[Bobby]

Life sucks. Forget girls and appreciate the friends you have! We're young teens! Not bachelors! You don't need a girl Paul.

[Glasgow]

Aha wow that was unexpectingly (Is that a word?) fast. I know i dont need a girl, but i need a girl-friend. A friend thats a girl, but i only seem to grow close to girls that "like" me. I never really attempt to make friends with a girl that doesnt have any interest in me, they sorta intimidate me :|

[Bobby]

Well if you seem to like this girl then why don't you go steady with her, is it because she doesn't talk in public places?

[Glasgow]

No. Its just that, I can't see us "going steady". And i just got out of my first relationship, it was great while it lasted, but the breakup was devistating. I think i should wait atleast a year or so until i think about having another girlfriend. She is also sorta, odd. I like it though, she is negative about herself, and that gives me oppurtunity to cheer her up, which I enjoy doing.

[Bobby]

Well I think you might wanna wait to get in another serious relationship. But until then, you should build strong relationships with all people, boys and girls. Social acceptance is good.

[mRojas2000]

Why don't ya just give it a try :) I've gotten out with girls I didn't like just to try out (I don't even call these a relationship). You can give her a try, see if she's really the one you're looking for and you are the one she's looking for and be together happily :) if I was you I would go out with her a couple of times, go to the movies, eat some pizza and stuff like that, and see... its never too soon to hae a good relationship :) well... if you broke up like YESTERDAY it isn't, but you and Heather broke uplike ages ago... I mean like 2 or 3 months ago.. just give that girl a try :)

[Hyper]

Paul see my friend it is the human being who makes life complicated.. Read your post and think over it and youl see your just imagineing it to be complicated

In otherwords just tell her how you feel you have realy nothing to lose..

[kragy]

i think you should just injoy your teenage years it only happens once so make the most of it, if you want to go out with that girl do it and if i doesnt work out then atleast you know that it didnt and you never 'wonder if i did ask her out' relax :)

[guitarfreak174]

i'm still really knew to this whole site but im not too bad at giving advice. From my experience, girls are the going to be the best friends you could ever make. I went to a jazz camp this last summer knowing only two people. i came home with 9 girls' phone numbers and 1 guy's number. Girls just are easier to talk to about everyday life and they give the best advice.

I also was in a relationship with a girl that lived in a different town and we mostly talked via msn IM. i liked her a lot and vice versa but things feel apart because we never got to see each other. Do you ever see her in person?

[Glasgow]

Not really actually, she asks me if i wanna go for a walk, but she lives sorta far. And im too lazy to meet her half way, which'll take 30 minutes to get there

[Maverick]

That must say something if she's not worth a small 30 minute walk. :P

[Glasgow]

Ahaha yea i guess you have a point there.

[Glasgow]

Well. I somehow mangaged to destroy our friendship all together (Atleast thats how i see it). Had a big fight last night, havent talked since

[Maverick]

What was the fight about?

[Glasgow]

Our friendship basically, and how things just werent the same as they were before.

[WriterAnonymous]

You're a teenager. That's teenage life. It will get better.