View Full Version : Ideas on how to get a girl
ChicagoBlackhawksFan
February 20th, 2011, 01:01 PM
Do you have any ideas for me on how to get a girl? Because I never really had a gf :( and I don't wanna be single all my life.
The Madness.
February 20th, 2011, 01:38 PM
You have to meet the right person. Just get to know them and when you feel the time is right, ask her out. Don't rush it and feel that you need a girlfriend. As time passes and you meet the right girl, then it'll happen. You can't rush that stuff if you want a happy relationship.
Bluesman
February 20th, 2011, 04:29 PM
Be yourself. You want her to fall in love with you, not an image you make up. Be cute, and treat very nice (obviously). You'll know when you find the right girl... There'll just be something different about her and sooner or later you'll realize it. Take your time mate, and don't settle for some random girl that you don't really like because you're lonely or desperate.
Jess
February 20th, 2011, 10:02 PM
Meet the right person. get to know her. don't rush. when you're ready..ask her out...
kevinjk
February 20th, 2011, 10:22 PM
just act normal around them and try to play around with them (make fun of them)and be nice as well as do not be shy
jen13
February 21st, 2011, 12:52 PM
hang out and be yourself :yeah:
Ambrosia
February 21st, 2011, 02:25 PM
You won't be alone all your life and the first step to that is, well, REALIZING it. If all you do is sit around and worry about being alone then you will surely be alone because you're wasting your time sitting around simply wishing.
Go out and be social.
Go out and actually TALK to girls!
Find someone you actually like, don't just look at a girl and say "She's cute, maybe..." Or, "She looks lonely..."
You gotta just let it happen. You can't act desperate. There's someone out there for everyone!
Jennifer's Ashes
February 23rd, 2011, 09:47 AM
Well, some girls like guys who will make the first move. We're pretty afraid of rejection. Also, once you get it going, try to listen to all the heinous, mundane things she wants to vent about. We do that.
MariettaNate1995
February 24th, 2011, 10:28 AM
You need to get out of the house. Go to school sporting events, go to parties, go to organizations. Lots of girls do volunteer work, so join an organization that does some.
If you're going out with the one singular goal of getting a girlfriend, then you will probably be disappointed. However, if you're going out to make friends, before you know it you will have a girl as a friend and then a girlfriend.
Eagle63
February 24th, 2011, 07:22 PM
Do them some favors (i.e. pick up their books for them). If you don't have anyone specific in mind, mix it up. Get them to notice you without going overboard and\or crazy.
jttaylor92
February 24th, 2011, 10:31 PM
Be confident. Girls love confidence, but don't mix that up with cockiness. You may get some girls with cockiness, but you'll get the wrong type (not the type for you). Just be yourself and be friendly! Your time will come. I know that sound bad, but it's true. Focus on something else (school, clubs, sports, etc.) and a girl is bound to pop up who may like you.
music is my soul
February 24th, 2011, 11:29 PM
all u need to do is let her come to u. or if u feel a sertain girl is for u and she is to shy to talk then u gotta take the first move.
lik everyone else said be yourself and make a few jokes. get her laughing. just dont rush it. you`ll find her eventually.
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