how to get over this... stupid fucking Shawn

[Bath]

It was kind of romantic how it happened, the surprise kisses, the cute looks and then being asked out.

I really fell for him. Not, like, love... I didn't love him, but I did grow attached. He made me feel so fucking special, told me how much he was happy to be with me and everything. How I was the only one he wanted to be with.

Everyone warned me he goes from girl to girl and would just use me, but I didn't listen. "I'm different."

Um, no.

I wake up at 3:30am after a terrible fucking night of tears and pain to this text message..

"Im sorry i dnt want to hurt u bt this is goin to hurt im goin out wit another girl we can stil b friends and ill stil give ur pack of cigs ok"

Im seeing him today at my community pool so he can give me my cigarettes he promised, and I'm debating with myself whether I should take his glasses of his face and throw them in the pool.

This hurts so much.

[TravM]

It was kind of romantic how it happened, the surprise kisses, the cute looks and then being asked out.

I really fell for him. Not, like, love... I didn't love him, but I did grow attached. He made me feel so fucking special, told me how much he was happy to be with me and everything. How I was the only one he wanted to be with.

Everyone warned me he goes from girl to girl and would just use me, but I didn't listen. "I'm different."

Um, no.

I wake up at 3:30am after a terrible fucking night of tears and pain to this text message..

"Im sorry i dnt want to hurt u bt this is goin to hurt im goin out wit another girl we can stil b friends and ill stil give ur pack of cigs ok"

Im seeing him today at my community pool so he can give me my cigarettes he promised, and I'm debating with myself whether I should take his glasses of his face and throw them in the pool.

This hurts so much.

Well, it's certainly obvious why you're upset. A guy played you. But this is certainly not the first and last time this will happen. I hear about so many girls who get hurt when things like this happen and it really leaves me shocked that they do get upset. Not saying this is your case, but some can be just so naive so I'm hoping you back away from that and move on.

The moment you read the text and realized that he didn't really care about you, is the moment when you should be able to realize that since he didn't give a fuck, you shouldn't either. So I'm hoping this doesn't affect you too harshly.

Now about the glasses in the pool idea, that's taking things a bit far in my opinion and dramatizing them further than it really needs to be, which could probably make you feel worse in the long run. I think what would be best is to accept the fact that he didn't care, take your cigarettes, and acknowledge the time you spent with him. He's a teenage boy, he has hormones, and he's going to go after the quickest thing I'd assume. He still wants to be friends, so obviously he thinks everything is a-okay. Throwing his glasses in the pool would probably confuse him and may possibly make your reputation with his friends (if you like any of them) go on decline. You probably know the whole "She's a crazy bitch" routine that guy friends say to each other.

Here's to hoping for the best in this situation. :)

[Rutherford The Brave]

shit happens, just find someone new youll get over it in no time.

[Jennifer's Ashes]

shit happens, just find someone new youll get over it in no time.

Yeah, I have to say, thats really all you can do at this point.

[Fact]

It was kind of romantic how it happened, the surprise kisses, the cute looks and then being asked out.

I really fell for him. Not, like, love... I didn't love him, but I did grow attached. He made me feel so fucking special, told me how much he was happy to be with me and everything. How I was the only one he wanted to be with.

Everyone warned me he goes from girl to girl and would just use me, but I didn't listen. "I'm different."

Um, no.

I wake up at 3:30am after a terrible fucking night of tears and pain to this text message..

"Im sorry i dnt want to hurt u bt this is goin to hurt im goin out wit another girl we can stil b friends and ill stil give ur pack of cigs ok"

Im seeing him today at my community pool so he can give me my cigarettes he promised, and I'm debating with myself whether I should take his glasses of his face and throw them in the pool.

This hurts so much.


I know you're hurting right now, but if he openly warned you about his pretences then you might want to take a step back in future and think more about what you're getting yourself into. That way, you won't make a mistake like this again and keep yourself from more hurt.

In short, he's a player, he told you so. You need to move on from what you thought you had together to see it for what it truly was and realise that you're not actually missing out on anything now that he's gone. You'll find a new guy who will treat you with more respect in no time. Let this be part of your learning curve rather than something that bogs you down.

Throwing his glasses in the pool is essentially cutting off your nose to spite your face. It's just affirming that you were attached to him and he got to you. Why let him have the last laugh? Just take your cigs, leave him be and forget about him. You'll be feeling better in no time.

Hope this helped.