What Do I Do?

[smalltowngirl9189]

Okay me and my boyfriend broke up Monday. The guy I've liked since 1st grade is dating me best friend. He broke up with her today and then asked me out... So I guess the question is
Boy or Friend?

[Rutherford The Brave]

A better question is, do the two of you want to help each other get over your exes?

[Quahog]

It's your decision as to whether you think it is too soon or not to start a relationship. Seeing that he dated your best friend, you should expect your friend to possibly degrade your relationship, by saying, "I was with him, he's no good, why are you with him?". Such and such. So you really should go over all your choices. If it were me, I would just stay single for the time being, especially since your best friend is getting over a breakup as well.

[TravM]

I would definitely give it some time to consider the options you have and the effects of them. Your friend could possibly be angry or jealous towards you because of you dating her ex-boyfriend and at a very soon date, at that.

[Bluesman]

Whatever you want. Be aware that if you go out and it doesn't last it could completely kill your friendship. Do whatever you want, but if you do date be willing to take that risk.

[smalltowngirl9189]

Ok so my best friend found out that he asked me out and she flipped out because everyone of her exes have come running to me after breaking up with her. She pretty much has the whole school against me. Me and her ex are going out... well sorta but thanks for the help!

[The Madness.]

Ok so my best friend found out that he asked me out and she flipped out because everyone of her exes have come running to me after breaking up with her. She pretty much has the whole school against me. Me and her ex are going out... well sorta but thanks for the help!

That's why she's doing that. Honestly, if it was me, I would be mad at you too. I wouldn't go so far as getting the school against you, but people can be melodramatic. You halfway brought this to yourself by going out with her ex. I know there's the 'girl code' and that stuff. But it's really just.. polite. That doesn't mean you can't go out with him, just maybe should have waited a while to go out with him then made sure she was cool with it if you really cared about keeping her friendship. But that's pretty petty to get the whole school against you. But just wait it out, most people you know will be over it after something else dramatic happens. And if you really want to stay friends with your friend, talk to her about it. Talk it out and be mature about the whole situation.