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pedrobehr
February 19th, 2011, 09:39 PM
I have a... broad problem.

Well, my High school is good and all. I have a lot of friends, popular and non-popular. I'm also in the tennis team, which is very fun... but just one problem. There is no one in the school I find cute, or worth having a romantic relationship with. I know I can just live High school without dating anyone, but I'm afraid I will be "forever alone".

I see my self as somewhat attractive, but I have NEVER dated anyone. This has been bugging me for years.

I thought of changing schools, but I've heard that you can never change back to your original school.

Are there any other ways to meet new people? I'm already in a busy schedule because I practice tennis everyday ( And I soon will be joining Orchestra)... maybe I can make room to do something else, idk?

I want to be with my friends, but I also want to meet new people to have a relationship with. I don't want my High school life to be boring.

Any suggestion on what I can do?

Aves
February 19th, 2011, 11:49 PM
You're in high school. So:

1) Don't worry if people are cute or not. You might be setting your standards too high.
2) Don't worry about being in a relationship. Friends are more beneficial in the long run.

That's about all I have to say on this.

Quahog
February 20th, 2011, 12:13 AM
What's the rush to find romance? It seems you have a pretty good school career. You have friends, you are taking up tennis, I don't see any reasons to change schools just because you can't find a fling. Be patient. You will find the right person. If you like a guy, start a conversation with him, get to know him, don't judge books by their covers. I really hope things go well for you. Just don't rush things, and enjoy your friendships, and your school life, relationships aren't everything, and it definitely isn't anything to change schools over.