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BrokenXPaperXDolls
February 19th, 2011, 09:55 AM
not sure if this is the right blace but ok so i have sufferd from anorexia, depression and have to see phycologists every now. the problem is i moved to a new school and have finaly made a few friends but they dont know any of this and constantly ask why im leaving school early or missing days when im realy seeing phycologists and stuff. i lie and just say i have an apointment but im afraid they will find out as i cant keep lying forever. once one of them who isnt realy a friend joked i was seeing a phycriactrist but in a joking way and i brushed it of and laughed along. im afraid that they will judge me if they find out or it will get around and im already shy so that is realy worrying and i cant help but feel that the frienships are built on lies and they will get mad or something. not sure what to do as they just keep on asking things. didnt mean this to turn into a rant sorry but would realy apreciate some advice thanks.
sorry abut all the bad spelling ooops:whoops:
Quahog
February 19th, 2011, 06:22 PM
It depends on you. Do you feel comfortable letting these people know. If they are friends of yours, you shouldn't be keeping lies from them, as friends don't keep secrets from each other. I'm sure that if you just tell them the truth, they might understand, they might even want to support/help you more, and maybe motivate you, so maybe telling them the truth might be a good thing.
juanito114
February 19th, 2011, 07:16 PM
not sure if this is the right blace but ok so i have sufferd from anorexia, depression and have to see phycologists every now. the problem is i moved to a new school and have finaly made a few friends but they dont know any of this and constantly ask why im leaving school early or missing days when im realy seeing phycologists and stuff. i lie and just say i have an apointment but im afraid they will find out as i cant keep lying forever. once one of them who isnt realy a friend joked i was seeing a phycriactrist but in a joking way and i brushed it of and laughed along. im afraid that they will judge me if they find out or it will get around and im already shy so that is realy worrying and i cant help but feel that the frienships are built on lies and they will get mad or something. not sure what to do as they just keep on asking things. didnt mean this to turn into a rant sorry but would realy apreciate some advice thanks.
sorry abut all the bad spelling ooops:whoops:
if they are true friends in your eyes then tell them but dont say anything to the rest and if you feel they will tell some one else then just keep it to yourself
BrokenXPaperXDolls
February 20th, 2011, 03:47 AM
Thanks for the advice :D might not tell all but ill try to tell my close friend and see how she reacts
thanks :)
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