need help to make up my mind????

[chris4827]

okay so theres this girl at school that is extremly easy and will have sex with any guy. so one day she asked me to have sex and im said "no" since i have no idea at this point if i went to have sex with her since:
1. im experimenting with bisexualty and its very confusing
2. call me old fashiond but i dont like her, and she doesnt like me...something about me being on a list or something so i dont want to sleep with her.
3. shes sleep with, no exageration, 10 different guys multiple times and shes told me herself that she doesnt use condoms. so i have no idea if she like...'clean' i guess?
to me these sound like perfectly good reasons and all, but then friends and other people come in and there like "why not?" and i just cant make them see my point of view so then i just start doubting myself and... what i really need is some help:(

[Quahog]

You did the right thing. She doesn't seem like a nice girl to mess with. Just ignore them if they keep picking on you for not going out with her. You didn't like her, and she is too conspicuous, and you don't want her. So I believe you made the right decision. She isn't a girl to be with. If she is sleeping around with different guys, not having safe sex, and you aren't attracted to her to begin with.

As far as you questioning your bi-sexuality, I think that's a different issue. I guess you are curious about both sexes, and you don't know whether you are bi-sexual or not, but I hope that you are accepting this, and you come to terms. I really hope things go well for you.

[chris4827]

thx for the reassurance :)

[Babobobo]

You handled the situation well. There's no need to call her a slut or whatnot, if she wants to do that than let her, but don't get involved. You don't want to stick anything of yours near that thing that's been used so many times. It's like licking a pay phone.

[MyRedHeadWorld]

Your oviasly very smart, You dont like her so why sleep with her? Dont doubt yourself because you are right! Dont give in to pressure from others, hay, if they wanna catch sank possibly, let em, but wait till you find a person you love :)x

[MariettaNate1995]

You handled that very well. If you don't like someone, don't sleep with them. Even if she is easy she could get attached to you and you don't want that. If she has been sleeping around a good bit then she may not be clean. If she isn't using protection and isn't on birth control then she might be sleeping around to get knocked up.