Me and My Friend...

[Bkylblk]

So I've been friends with this guy since we were in 7th grade(we're in 10th grade now) and over the past 4 years we have gotten really close. About a year ago we kissed on a dare and its escalated from there. Last June it went pretty far, but not like all the way. We were both in relationships at the time, but me and my girlfriend broke up while he is still with the same girl. Recently a lot of drama has arose from us fooling around behind peoples backs. His girlfriend who used to be one of my best friends says we are still friends but she will never forgive me and she said that she resents me. But the thing is I've sort of developed feelings for him and since his girlfriend has gotten rather angry about what has happened he won't stop talking about our sexual past. It seems like he really wants to fool around again especially since last week he prosed we have sex but we both chickened out. Am I taking advantage of the situation? What should I do?

[sieg]

well it seems like he's willing to keep your realtionship going so i don't think your the one taking advantage of the situation. I think you should do what makes you happy.

[willrod]

Well first of all- you should have a discussion about what your guys' feelings are towards each other. It could be that he really likes you, or he might just be wanting to fool around. At any rate, open up to each other and figure out what's going on before moving onto the next level.

[CryWolf]

Yeah definitely talk to him about it. Theres nothing like having an understanding.

[Donkey]

Talk, as the others have said. You cannot go on while his girlfriend is uncomfortable with it - you're going to have to work something out. Your friend has to choose between you or her. Talk it over, see how it goes. We can't really give any advice without knowing what your friend really feels, but he's definitely curious :P

[Mario T]

discus this w/ him see how he feels

[TeenageDream]

I say go for it.

[meower93]

you two are obviously close, if sex doesnt completely ruin the friendship go for it

[Lights]

If this guy feels for you how you feel for him, you should go for it. Otherwise you should probably leave it because you don't want to alienate your friend any more than you already have (she doesn't sound like she's your friend if she "resents" you), and you don't want to be let down by this guy.

If you two share mutual feelings for one another, then I think you should take a chance with this.

[tyler007]

i would go for it.. i have a good friend like that too.
Its pretty awesome.

[sdude]

Yeah, sounds like you both are ready to take the next step, talk to him and if he is ready, you will both know ...good luck, hope it works out for both of you!