Feeling Ignored.

[tHe_SmALL_fIsH]

Yes, I feel ignored. Not by my mother. Not by my father but by a friend. Lately I've been texing this guy, he used to go to my church. And no, I'm not datinging, I really don't think it is possible for me to date him, no matter how hard I want him to. Anyways, for the past week, I've been texing him. And for the past week... No reply. And I go on my Facebook™ account and tell him I've texted him, I get no reply what so ever. And soon, I find out that my Facebook™ was disabled yesterday. So now I have no way of contact with him. I think I scared him away, in my opinion. I sorta asked him to dinner w/ a couple friends. I accedently did this... On Valintines day. I never pay attention to a calender, I sometimes forget my own birthday. But I really dont think that is an important factor, because A week before that He still hasn't texted me. My friends say just for get him, But I cant. He is the first thing I think about when I wake up, and the last thing I think about when I go to sleep. I just HATE thinking about him, because I CONSTANTLY think about him. I dont even try... He just appears in my mind. I wish I could never think about him, just so my mind can be at rest. I really dont think is fair. I lay at night thinking about him. I sometimes blame him for this, but he doesnt know, I really cant blame him. He has made my heart turn way too violently.

Please help.

-Kaitie

[sage of craze]

Sounds like you really like this guy. You want my opinion? Go after him. Seems like not doing so is just making you depressed, and do you really want to look back 10 years from now and wonder what could have happened? I wish you luck with whatever you decide.

[Quahog]

Instead of texting him, why don't you just call him up? You never mentioned calling his house, so I don't know if you already tried that.

If not, I guess you have to move on. He is obviously avoiding you, for reasons, which I really don't know, but maybe this is a good thing. This is a sign that the two of you weren't meant to be together. You will find other people that you will like, and this guy I don't think is the one. He isn't answering any of your messages, by phone, or by facebook, so to me, that just tells me he is avoiding you.

But either way, if he really drives you crazy, be patient, and wait until you can get in contact with him, but communication is a big part of a relationship, and if there isn't any, that's a problem.

[KylieEatWorld]

Don't draw conclusions too fast he could just be busy or grounded or something. It sounds as if you really love this boy. I think you should give him a little bit of space just in case as guys can feel nervous really easily sometimes. Maybe a couple days or a week and then grab a mutual friend, go to his house, and ask if he wants to go lunch. Lunch is always less threatening to guys. It's in the middle of the day and it gives off a message of friendship as opposed to dinner which gives off a date vibe.

Gauge how he reacts to this idea. If he's ecstatic than he never had a problem. If he's just okay with it then subtly watch how he acts the entire time. He might still be creeped out by you, in which case you just need to give him a lot of time and space for him to get over it, or he's going through a hard time, or you were just making a big deal out of nothing.

You could even ask him in a jokingly accusatory manner(I've used this before) why he hasn't been responding. Usually they'll give you a satisfactory reason.