relationship trouble......

[Afraid Of Me]

i'm not sure if this is the right place for this but i'll put it here because its affecting my relationship.

i've been dating this girl for nearly 2 months now and i told her that i didnt want to have sex because i felt that it would ruin our relationship. i wont say how this happened but we winded up doing it anyways 2 weeks ago maybe and then a few times after that and now i feel like our relationship is ruined because of it. like i might just be me but i dont feel the same way about her as i did before we did that. and i've been thinking about breaking up with her. but with all the things that go on in my head it could be my mind playing tricks on me.
i dont want to hurt her because i do care about her but i dont want to stay in this relationship if i'm not gonna have feeling for it you know?
any advice?

[sage of craze]

Before you decide to end the relationship, you should have a talk with her. If it all is in your head, a talk will help clear your mind. If she feels the same way, then the talk would be a good place to end things cleanly. I'm not suggesting that you stay in the relationship if it's going to make you unhappy, I'm just suggesting a simple talk. Good luck in whatever you decide to do.

[Quahog]

Well, it's up to you as to whether you want to stay, or leave. It depends on how much you really like her, and whether or not, sex, is a big factor in your relationship. You need to talk things out with her, and tell you how you really feel, and maybe you guys can compromise, and hopefully things will work out for the both of you, because good relationships require communication from both sides.

But if you want to end it, and don't want to hurt her feelings, you also need to talk to her. Tell her why you no longer want to be together with her, and usually she will understand. Sometimes relationships don't work out the way that they should. But I hope whatever decision you make, things go well for you.