girl trouble

[Starlight Blaze]

There's this girl, and we arer getting really close, like we almost kissed, but she has a boyfriend who really loves her, and my friend says she's just leading me on

I have no idea what to do. I didn't mean to have feelings for, but it just happened. She knows, and said she would date me, if she wasn't going out with her current boyfriend.

It's just a very confusing situation... do any of you have advice on how to deal with it?

[Charleigh]

As she has a boyfriend, I wouldnt do anything with her, as this could cause the shit to hit the fan. When she "leads" you on, tell her no she has a boyfriend and you are not willing to cheat or flirt, while she is in a relationship.

Hun, if she is really interested she wouldnt run to you and be all over you, and then run back to her boyfriend to throw herself all over him too.

Im here if you ever need to talk.
:hug:

[Quahog]

She is taken, and you can't become more than friends, until she decides to end it with the person that she is currently with. If you start a relationship with her, you are invading onto their relationship. You can be friends with her, but not boyfriend, and girlfriend.

I agree with what Charlie said, if she tries to touch you, remind her that she has a boyfriend, and that might get her to think about her relationship priorities.

[KylieEatWorld]

Tell her that you respect her and her boyfriend too much to get in between their relationship and that although you really love her you want a relationship with her and want to be her only guy. Most girls would respect that. Now there are chances that she won't and she'll stay with him in which case you might just have to wait it out or look for someone else.

I wish you good luck as this must be a tough situation. Just don't give into temptation! If she means as much as you say she does than she should be so much more than a cheating one night stand.

[Starlight Blaze]

thanks guys... and i guess you're right. I wanted to talk to her about it today, and you gave me ideas of what to say...
really, thanks a lot!

[MariettaNate1995]

Personally, I'd just wait and see if she and her current bf breakup. If they do, be ready to sweep in there and pick her up.